I am a modestly winning low stakes, recreational player and might feel differently if my livelihood depended on poker winnings. When I play live and online, most of the horrible players do seem to be enjoying themselves according to their own lights. But some people have a problem. Roy Cooke, a strong, winning pro for many years has written some interesting columns about losing players. I find his point of view admirable, in that he tries to win and play well without losing his perspective and humanity. I think this is a form of winning in life, too.