[Insty]

If you want to make the money it's important not to get into fights with one of the two people who can bust you.

This is a hard hand to laydown preflop though, so maybe minraising and laying down to a reraise might be a good option. It really depends on how tight the table has been. Has the big stack been reraising a lot previously?

I hope your flush didn't lose to 4 Jacks....