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kenberman 11-18-2005 03:59 PM

Hooking up with young, cute, junior co-workers
 
No, I can't post pics.

background: I'm a mid-level manager...1 step below exec. committe at my company. about 7 people higher up than me (title wise), maybe 20 equal to me, and 30 underneath me. again, all title wise. I'm 30yo.

a newish girl at work is very cute, and seems to have taken a liking to me. she's 21/22. she is at the bottom rung of the totem pole, and although neither she nor her manager report directly to me, they kinda do in a matrix (not movie, but org structure) sort of way.

is there anyway hooking up with this girl can not lead to a bad workplace scenario?

miajag81 11-18-2005 04:00 PM

Re: Hooking up with young, cute, junior co-workers
 
No, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't do it.

TheWorstPlayer 11-18-2005 04:01 PM

Re: Hooking up with young, cute, junior co-workers
 
Yeah. Get her fired first. While she's still working at the company, no good can come of it. There are plenty of cute, willing girls who work elsewhere. Or just get her fired.

swede123 11-18-2005 04:01 PM

Re: Hooking up with young, cute, junior co-workers
 
Two possible scenarios.

1) You quit.

2) She quits.

Not what you want to hear but such is life.

Swede

kenberman 11-18-2005 04:03 PM

Re: Hooking up with young, cute, junior co-workers
 
I'm not looking for a relationship with her, just a good time.

I suppose that is also relevant information I should have given.

it's also a reason why neither of us would even consider quiting for one another.

Ulysses 11-18-2005 04:03 PM

Re: Hooking up with young, cute, junior co-workers
 
Pls PM me pics and I will tell you whether the risk/reward is worth it.

Shajen 11-18-2005 04:04 PM

Re: Hooking up with young, cute, junior co-workers
 
I believe it was me who said: "Don't [censored] where you eat"

arod15 11-18-2005 04:04 PM

Re: Hooking up with young, cute, junior co-workers
 
[ QUOTE ]
No, I can't post pics.

background: I'm a mid-level manager...1 step below exec. committe at my company. about 7 people higher up than me (title wise), maybe 20 equal to me, and 30 underneath me. again, all title wise. I'm 30yo.

a newish girl at work is very cute, and seems to have taken a liking to me. she's 21/22. she is at the bottom rung of the totem pole, and although neither she nor her manager report directly to me, they kinda do in a matrix (not movie, but org structure) sort of way.

is there anyway hooking up with this girl can not lead to a bad workplace scenario?

[/ QUOTE ]

Nothing but bad can come of this.
That being said I would do in a heartbeat, I have done it past, horrible things happened, but ill do it again........
You only live once.....

TheWorstPlayer 11-18-2005 04:05 PM

Re: Hooking up with young, cute, junior co-workers
 
You'll notice I said nothing about quitting.

CollinEstes 11-18-2005 04:05 PM

Re: Hooking up with young, cute, junior co-workers
 
Hook up once with her. Make it seem the next day like it was a huge mistake and convice her that you too should go your seperate ways.

Be careful though, because at her age you could be looking at a potiental stage 5 clinger.


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