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Gata Kamsky 10-16-2004 12:41 PM

I\'m Depressed and Don\'t Want To Play
 
Can you guys give me some advice on how to move on after being raped by fish by bad beat after bad beat yesterday to the tune of 40 bb in 10-20 and 7 buyins in baby nl 1-2. It just seems like I should give up and not play. Should I take a break or fight back today and get it back?

Fat Bottomed Girls 10-16-2004 01:33 PM

Re: I\'m Depressed and Don\'t Want To Play
 
You should go back to playing chess.

And then you should challenge Garry Kasparov.

bisonbison 10-16-2004 01:44 PM

Re: I\'m Depressed and Don\'t Want To Play
 
if you don't want to play, don't play. Honest to god.

Al Schoonmaker 10-16-2004 03:18 PM

Re: I\'m Depressed and Don\'t Want To Play
 
I wholeheartedly agree.
If you are depressed, the odds are high that you will not play well. You will probably lose, which will increase your depression.
Take a break until you can play with enthusiasm and confidence.
Regards,
Al

MicroBob 10-16-2004 03:44 PM

Re: I\'m Depressed and Don\'t Want To Play
 
Additionally, it is my opinion that if you are that bothered by dropping 40BB at the level you are playing then you should be playing at a lower level.

bisonbison 10-16-2004 03:54 PM

Re: I\'m Depressed and Don\'t Want To Play
 
Gata, I also wanted to say that I made a post about this in SS a couple of weeks ago: Stuck to the Grind.

In short, if you're experiencing emotional fatigue, sadness, self-doubt or anger when you play, you're doing something wrong. If you're a casual player, you need to reevaluate why, when and how you play. If you're playing for needed money, you need to evaluate if you're really cut out for the grind.

Lama 10-16-2004 06:19 PM

Re: I\'m Depressed and Don\'t Want To Play
 
Are u Gata Kamsky the chess player ?(oh well I know im very curious...)

Mayhap 10-16-2004 07:36 PM

Re: I\'m Depressed and Don\'t Want To Play
 
I've seen it said before bison, but I'll chime in too:
You write well.
/M

chesspain 10-16-2004 07:37 PM

Re: I\'m Depressed and Don\'t Want To Play
 
[ QUOTE ]
Are u Gata Kamsky the chess player ?(oh well I know im very curious...)

[/ QUOTE ]

I certainly hope not, because it would now be really sad to see a once proud prodigy, who was once touted for his steely nerves, whining worse than a stuck, freshman cheerleader after a date gone bad with the star quarterback.

JTG51 10-16-2004 07:45 PM

Re: I\'m Depressed and Don\'t Want To Play
 
Not playing isn't an option?


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