your friend\'s ex... off limits?
 

so, i've been friends w/ "bill" for a long time. bill and i lived together during school with 3 other people. he dated "veronica" for almost 2 years. bill met veronica freshman year of college, and sophomore year veronica transferred to another school because they had broken up and veronica's life at her first school basically revolved around bill. a few months later, veronica and bill got back together..

back in march/april, they broke up because veronica made out w/ a couple guys. (once on spring break, don't know when the other was) she says the reason she did it was because he treeated like her [censored], which he did. he cheated on her a couple times, but never told her.

SO, he broke up with her and a few weeks later he started dating another chick. fast forward to september-ish. bill and his new chick broke up for a little bit so he calls veronica and he goes up to see her and they fool around. (she was always telling me things he'd say to her.. recently he told her that he missed having sex with her and that he has to fake 1/2 his orgasms w/ new chick - when he first started dating new chick he would always tell veronica that he missed her and that sometimes he wishes new chick was veronica) i can't decide if he says these things because he's just trying to teach her a lesson, or he actually still loves her, or if he just enjoys having veronica be depressed over him..

fast forward to last month - veronica and i have become really good friends, we talk all the time and have a lot in common. we were friends when she dated bill, but never really talked all that much. so some friends and i were up visiting our other friends and i eventually met up with veronica. i ended up going home w/ her and all we did was make out. a few days ago we were talking and she told me that she liked me, and i told her i liked her.

so, what's my play now? i really wanna hang out with her and see if there is something between us - what if there is? do i pursue something? should i get 'permission'??

any advice is appreciated

Re: your friend\'s ex... off limits?
 

bad idea

Re: your friend\'s ex... off limits?
 

a. have your head examined.

b. hit it anyway.

Re: your friend\'s ex... off limits?
 

Hit it and post the trainwreck story after

Re: your friend\'s ex... off limits?
 

bros before hoes

Re: your friend\'s ex... off limits?
 

Scotty doesn't know that Fiona and me
Do it in my van every Sunday.
She tells him she's in church but she doesn't go
Still she's on her knees and Scotty doesn't know!

Oh Scotty doesn't know!
So Don't Tell Scotty!
Scotty doesn't know!
Scotty doesn't know!
So Don't Tell Scotty!

Fiona says she's out shopping,
But she's under me and I'm not stopping...

Because Scotty doesn't know!
Scotty doesn't know! (X3)
So don't tell Scotty!
Scotty doesn't know!

Don't tell Scotty!

I can't believe he's so trusting,
While I'm right behind you thrusting.
Fiona's got him on the phone,
And she's trying not to moan.
It's a three-way call and he knows nothing!

Scotty doesn't know!(X3)
So don't tell Scotty!
Scotty doesn't know!(X3)

We'll put on a show!
Everyone will go!
Scotty doesn't know!(x3)

The parkin lot
Why not? It's so cool when you're on top!
His front lawn in the snow
Life is so hard because Scotty doesn't know!

We did it on his birthday...

etc.

Re: your friend\'s ex... off limits?
 

it all depends on how close your friend is.

If he is like your best friend, I'd suggest talking to him about it to avoid confrontation. Bro's before hoes.

If he is a marginally good friend. Bang her, once to like a few times. Then tell him about it. I mean, a guy that cheats on a girl has no claims to her after they break up. If he can't handle that then [censored] him. Make sure he hears it from you though, and not some random person at a party. You don't want him to like, try to kill you.

Good guy = give respect

Douchebag guy you know really well = [censored] her

I think that is what I am tryiing to say.

Re: your friend\'s ex... off limits?
 

Hope you dont like Bill. Heres the scenarios I know from experience.

You Ask Bill, Bill says Yes go head, you bang her he gets mad 2 months later and tells you to f-off.

You ask Bill he Says no, hes mad you even asks he tells you to f-off right then and there.

You ask Bill he Says no,you bang her anyway,he find out and tells you to f- off


You dont ask, you bang the [censored] outa her, you hide it as long as you can , Bill find outs , tells you to f-off

You don't do anything and tell her its a bad idea, Veronica Cries and tells Bill you "made out" w/ her a few months later when shes taking it up the ass from Bill again . Bill comes home a tells you to f-off.


Pick your poison, but say goodbye to Bill. GO ahead and ask , when he says no or yes you do it anyway , your loosing him as a friend no matter what cause you got a hard on for a girl he still obviously likes.

Re: your friend\'s ex... off limits?
 

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so, i've been friends w/ "bill" for a long time. bill and i lived together during school with 3 other people. he dated "veronica" for almost 2 years.

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I stopped reading right here.

She is OFF LIMITS.

Re: your friend\'s ex... off limits?
 

My roommate from college had a pretty cute girlfriend that he was terrible too. On his birthday he went home to be with his family and told her she couldn't go.

I ended up giving her a little birthday present for him that night. Looking back now it seems like a bad idea, but this girl had some mad skills.