Sex Issues
 

Sexually inexperienced. Im 19, this is the first girl i've had sex with. She is really hot, we've been dating for like 4 months, and the sex is great sometimes, but other times i just lose my boner. It feels great, but it takes me like 20X longer to orgasm w/ sex than by say masturbation. Sometimes it takes too long, and I lose my erection. Sometimes I dont, and we go for an hour or so, break, and do it again later that day.


Any suggestions? Serious please.

Re: Sex Issues
 

You may be gay. You lose your boner with a really hot chick while you're [censored] her? What is wrong with you?

Re: Sex Issues
 

masturbate less ? maybe that will help.

Re: Sex Issues
 

Must... suppress... urge...

Okay, trying to be helpful.

Do you use condoms?
Are you circumcized?
When she gives you head, is this an issue (ie, can she slurp on your dong for an hour and have you go, "eh"?)?

Uh...

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Sometimes it takes too long, and I lose my erection. Sometimes I dont, and we go for an hour or so, break, and do it again later that day.

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So, you [censored] for an hour without nuttin', and then you just stop? And sometimes you [censored] for 30 minutes and your dong just says "forget this broad..." and curls up and goes to sleep?

How DO you get your rocks off with this chick?

And, how often DO you choke it?

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No condoms
Not Circumcized
With head, i dont orgasm, but ill keep the boner.

No- sometimes the sex is great, and I cum, and we might do It 2-3 times in a day, with me orgasming every time.

Sometimes It just curls up and I have to pull out.

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you do any drugs?

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masturbate less ? maybe that will help.

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This is completely random and is just an idea, but you could try lifting weights or doing serious excercises. This would up your testosterone, and might help. Not that I have any medical education, but it makes sense to me that this would increase your sex drive - which really seems to be the problem here.

-SmileyEH

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performance anxiety?

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masturbate less

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good advice. OP, not enough information here (or too much, maybe, lol). Could be lots of things causing a bit of limpdick, and that's normal.

Alcohol?
Drugs/meds of any sort?
Not enough sleep?
Not enough exercise/out-of-shape?
Too much masturbation/sex?
Dehydrated?

If your body is out of whack, either in general or just on a particular day, that'll happen.

That's the physical part. The mental part is if/when you start worrying about it...which just makes it worse.

So...don't worry about it. Stay in physical shape and pay attention to things like the list above when this does happen.

Pyro

(FWIW, I think most women would prefer a man with some staying power over a minuteman...)