Girlfriend Trouble?
 

So here's the story:

I've been with my girlfriend for a little over 3 months now.
A month into our relationship, a friend of hers told her that said friend was going to go backpack Europe for 3.5 months next March. She has always wanted to backpack Europe, so she told her friend that she would seriously think about it.

Her friend is a guy.

He's not gay.

They had a long past with eachother. They were both really close friends for a long time, then he did the "I actually really like you and want to be WITH you." She, I guess, got mad and broke off the friendship for a year. They are, obviously, talking again. And now she's seriously considering going to Europe with him.... alone.

She can't talk about it with me, because I get angry about the whole deal and fight with her about it.

She has to make her decision very soon, as class registration is the next week for next semester classes.

She "SWEARS" he doesn't have feelings like that for her anymore, and that she'd never cheat on me if she went, etc. etc. etc...


How would you guys feel about this?

Re: Girlfriend Trouble?
 

bang bitches while she's away

Re: Girlfriend Trouble?
 

Yep...depending on the girl...there are a lot of variables to play with here....but find another girl...its not like you are looking at years but only months.

Re: Girlfriend Trouble?
 

this wouldn't happen to me, I can tell you that. 3 months in to a relationship you should tell her you are going to cut your losses and move on if she does this trip. thats too much to be stressed about.

(and obviously, he still wants on her, and he doesn't care about you)

Re: Girlfriend Trouble?
 

Preemptive break-up.

Re: Girlfriend Trouble?
 

http://www.gretatop.org/~mmajewski/t...ck_bateman.gif

"Just say 'NO!'"

Re: Girlfriend Trouble?
 

If you're bigger than this backpacking putz, mess him up...kinda like uhhh the cable guy movie...

Re: Girlfriend Trouble?
 

Perfect spot for the threesome.

Re: Girlfriend Trouble?
 

I met the guy once, he's a small/nervous type guy.

On top of everything, I don't think I could count on him if something were to happen to both of them in Europe.

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By the way, she's an amazing girl. I do believe she would never cheat on me. She is the type of girl who is friends with mostly guys, only some girls, and she's too naive to realize that all the guys just want in her pants.

Maybe purposefully naive....


And yes, the guy is single.

Re: Girlfriend Trouble?
 

She doesn't want him. Mostly likely nothing will happen. Is he going to try? Yes.