to the restaurant people...fine line: stalking vs. initiative
 

....or THERES A FINE LINE BETWEEN STALKING AND INITIATIVE.

so i met this girl thursday night. we rapped for quite some time, and we really hit it off. Unfortunately, her friend dragged her out of the bar 'all of the sudden.' I managed to get her name at the last minute, and i know(from our discussion) that she works as a line cook in an upscale restaurant next door to the bar. I didn't get her number. How appropriate is it to contact a restaurant and ask for a cook? is the hostess going to connect me or tell me to [censored] off? is this appropriate?

Re: to the restaurant people...fine line: stalking vs. initiative
 

Pull a taxi driver.

Re: to the restaurant people...fine line: stalking vs. initiative
 

This will catch her [censored] at work 90 percent of the time.

Re: to the restaurant people...fine line: stalking vs. initiative
 

Isnt your play obvious? You've got to do the stake-out

Re: to the restaurant people...fine line: stalking vs. initiative
 

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Isnt your play obvious? You've got to do the stake-out

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and post the pictures/video here.

Re: to the restaurant people...fine line: stalking vs. initiative
 

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Isnt your play obvious? You've got to do the stake-out

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and post the pictures/video here.

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Agreed, QFE.

Re: to the restaurant people...fine line: stalking vs. initiative
 

Isn't anyone going to state the obvious "How the [censored] did you not get her number?"

Re: to the restaurant people...fine line: stalking vs. initiative
 

Stalker.

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I managed to get her name at the last minute

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Why did you not do this early in the conversation?

Re: to the restaurant people...fine line: stalking vs. initiative
 

Why don't you go to the restauraunt casually with friends and ask the waitress/hostess if they know her, if she's working etc.?