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He didn't completely blow it initially -- he got back to her place and fooled around. Leaving in the morning was STUPID though. Stay there, make some breakfast, and talk it over with her. Don't let her characterize the whole thing as a drunken mistake first. Get across that you like her and that while it's wasn't the best way to start a relationship (when BOTH of you are drunk -- if you say when SHE was drunk it's going to up the "you're a whore" factor), you'd still be interested in one. Somehow do all that without coming across as love-struck loser.

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OMFG. Hey how about throwing in some free therapy too. Maybe watch Dr. Phil together.

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Before I reply, I was just about to fire one off saying that I think your line is better.

But seriously, WTF? I'm not talking about a heart to heart in-depth conversation here. I know it doesn't come across well in text, but you can do all that in a casual manner. Hence the "Somehow do all that without coming across as love-struck loser" part. Basic points include:

- don't let her talk first
- casually say something about how you had a great time drinking with her last night and would like to see her again
- if she then acts/talks like it's a mistake, then shrug it off and move on to the next

Basically, your note but in person.

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I guess my point is we're adults here. No one needs their hand held.

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Oh, I thought you were bashing my line, rather than the fact that I spelled it out a bit for OP.

I'd agree, but... I mean, he was considering e-mailing her. Clearly hand-holding is necessary.

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dude, even i wouldnt [censored] this one up.

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I forgot about the email. After thinking about it for two seconds, that would seriously suck.

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I have an issue with a girl and was hoping to illicit the advice of the ever-wise OOT forum.

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Did anyone else notice this?

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I have an issue with a girl and was hoping to illicit the advice of the ever-wise OOT forum.

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Did anyone else notice this?

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yep. It's called a Freudian slap

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I have an issue with a girl and was hoping to illicit the advice of the ever-wise OOT forum.

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Did anyone else notice this?

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yep. It's called a Freudian slap

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"slip" <font color="white"> OMG you thought I was serious? </font>

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TTIWWOP

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dude, even i wouldnt [censored] this one up.

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dude, you stole me line.

Oh, and you can change my 2 to a 9, as I too am a [censored].