Why do girls go home with you if they\'re not going to sleep with you?
 

Seriously, this is not cool.

I'm in third year university and I had a grade 9 makeout last night because this chick was uber-prude. So I pick-up this chick at a halloween party and then she comes back to my place with me. I've got her naked on my bed and am getting her going and then she says, "this is great for me, but it sucks because you're not getting anything out of it". This goes on for a little because I think she'll come around, and then she decides she's going to jet. Nothing went badly or anything and she definitely seemed to be enjoying herself. WTF?

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"this is great for me, but it sucks because you're not getting anything out of it".

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Bogus.

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I have had this happen to me before. Here is your play. When she drops the bombshell, don't freak out or ignore it completely. Address it in a calm, rational manner. Do not sound incredulous when you ask, "Do you really mean that?" If she replies in the affirmative then just get dressed and ask her to leave. Tell her you're going to masturbate and don't want her around for it. Do not ask for her number or give her yours. That is all.

If you're asking why women do this, then I don't know.

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Shrug, roll over and please yourself.

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You need to work on your kissing and handwork.

Or maybe she had the painters in? Did you see string?

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You need to work on your kissing and handwork.

Or maybe she had the painters in? Did you see string?

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Haha, that's the best way I've ever heard it being called.

But yeah, seriously, if the girl is gonna do something like that, then if you have no interest in her besides [censored], then kick her out. You can tell her sex is a two-way street. [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

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Last night I went on a pub crawl. I was hooking up with some girl all night. She says she will drive me back to my place. So we get in her car, and she drives me all the way out to my house. Her tank is basically on empty and she has to drive all the way across town to get home, and probably won't make it. All the gas stations around are closed. I suggest she crash at my place, get gas in the morning then go home. Nope, she drops me off, kisses me goodbye and that's the end of it. WTF

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You need to work on your kissing and handwork.

Or maybe she had the painters in? Did you see string?

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Haha, yeah this is going to give me a complex.

And no. Like I was full out fooling around with her. She seemed to be going for it too. And then she drops the bomb.

I like splade masters response. Good stuff in there. But I mean this was a painful experience. There is significant physical pain associated with an experience like this. Why would a girl do that to you? Just not very courteous.

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In high school there was this girl in my grade, she would go to parties, give a guy a blowjob, and just before he was about to come, she would get up and leave. That must be painful too.

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Girls are changeable. I personally like this about them, I find it endearing, unless it's making me late for something.

In any given case of this, she saw something about you she liked, but something happened that changed her mind. Could be you said something that didn't sound like something she expected from her first impressions, could be your ass crack when you bent over on the way home, could be there's an 'r' in the month.

Or she's a teaser.

Easy as that.

However, if it keeps happening, kissing/handwork need improvement.