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...think they can do anything and you will think it is cute. i do NOT respond well to this crap. If you expect me to bow down every time you make a request just because you have tits, let me know. because i will point to the next pair of tits that walks by, who isn't [censored] obnoxious.

Last night I was out with my sister who came to manhattan about a year and a half ago to attend NYU med school. She is a big Rob Thomas fan and thought it would be fun to go to a concert together, so last night we went out to dinner and then went to the concert.

So the concert was kinda weird, and then we head home. We both live downtown so we go to share a cab. I walk 2 blocks down and raise my hand up, with nobody in sight. A cab starts coming down when a 28-30 year old woman dressed like she was 13 (no complaints) yells "you aren't gonna steal a cab from girls are you?" I reply, "I'm gay, so that won't work on me." The girls replies "no you're not, I can see it in your eyes." None the less, I was waiting for a cab and she was coming up from behind me, so the cab was rightfully mine. It was getting late, I had work and was tired so I just wanted to get home. I think nothing of it, open the door for my sister, when suddenly someone pushes me out of the way. It was the woman. Half smiling she says "that's bullshit" I stood back in disgust as her friend quickly ran into the car.

How do you guys react to this? Like girls out at a bar who come up to you and say "buy me a drink?" I am very generous - like VERY generous when it comes to other people. If i go out with friends I don't mind buying a round. If i do go out and meet a girl i will definatly pay for her drinks and if i take a lady anywhere she might as well not bring a purse. But some girls just seem to cross the line.

PS - the concert was weird. How many men between 22-35 did you think listend to Rob Thomas and would go to a concert, like on a man-date. It was weird.

PPS - and yes, I would definatly have slept with either of the 2 girls.

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If i do go out and meet a girl i will definatly pay for her drinks and if i take a lady anywhere she might as well not bring a purse.

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Do not do this.

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I tend to be pretty generous with women. I open doors, buy drinks, compliment them, etc. However, these things should come from the fact that I'm a gentleman and I want to do it. They should not come from the fact that she's trying to use me or guilt me into something. If she does that, she'll get nowhere. If a strange girl asks for a drink, I'll probably laugh at her. Same with the cab.

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Last night I was out with my sister

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I started out with a bad impression of your post.

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Women like this give all women a bad name. They should be avoided like the plague and given no preferential treatment. Hell, you should treat them like dirt. There are pleanty of beautiful women who don't act like this, there is no need to play this game. Funny thing is that if you do stand up for yourself, you have a better chance bagging one of the chicks anyway.

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*yawn*

Standard line of put them down but in an cocky and funny way. Equally good alternatives are many but that is a decent enough start. They saw you as weak and owned you because, well you are weak and they do own you although I'm sure your look of disgust caused them to rethink their lives up to that point.

You should also stop buying drinks and for damn sure stop buying food early on.

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you guys don't pay for a girl when you go out with them!? I don't mean I go to a bar, meet some broad and pick up her tab. But if i've been sitting with the girl for an hour or so and having fun I will go to the bar and get her and I a drink.

And yes I almost lied and said it wasn't my sister because it does seem kinda weird.

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Did I miss something, or are the "2 girls" in your story: a) the annoying woman, and b) ...your sister??

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You got blindsided by a woman?

Work on your peripheral vision, man. And your balance.

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you guys don't pay for a girl when you go out with them!? I don't mean I go to a bar, meet some broad and pick up her tab. But if i've been sitting with the girl for an hour or so and having fun I will go to the bar and get her and I a drink.



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I'm with you. Normal. only the wrong type of girl will look down at this.

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hey man, they keep demanding equality. let's give it to them.

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wow, she was way out of line!
My take on the drink paying protocole is that if a guy buys me drink and I am interested, I'll buy the next round. It's only fair.

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Nice. Way too rare, unfortunately.

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Next time just shove her to the ground when she pushes you away. You are a man and she is a woman. Unless of course she is willing to sleep with you for the cab right in which case you should share the cab. Which leads me to ask why you didn't do that in the first place if she was cute. You already had an "in" when she said "no you aren't, I can see it in your eyes."

Equal Rights! If a man did the same thing, I would punch him in the face. It's only fair that you at least shove her to the ground.

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Nice. Way too rare, unfortunately.

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Only because too few men respond to "Buy me a drink" with "No but you can buy me one".

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Equal Rights! If a man did the same thing, I would punch him in the face. It's only fair that you at least shove her to the ground.

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Or punch her in the nuts.

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Only because too few men respond to "Buy me a drink" with "No but you can buy me one".

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Women actually say that stuff????
I could never go up to a guy and ask him to buy me a drink.

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Next time just shove her to the ground when she pushes you away. You are a man and she is a woman. Unless of course she is willing to sleep with you for the cab right in which case you should share the cab. Which leads me to ask why you didn't do that in the first place if she was cute. You already had an "in" when she said "no you aren't, I can see it in your eyes."

Equal Rights! If a man did the same thing, I would punch him in the face. It's only fair that you at least shove her to the ground.

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Werd, bust out the mace on her cab stealing ass... Be all like BLAM! take that ho.

The response to "no you aren't, I can see it in your eyes." is "You busted me, I lied, *pause* that's just what I tell women I'm not interested in / attracted to".

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it's

b) the annoying woman's friend

...but I thought it meant the sister the first time I read it, too... [img]/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img]

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yes but hitting on chicks in front of your sister is weird

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Why?

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Only because too few men respond to "Buy me a drink" with "No but you can buy me one".

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Women actually say that stuff????
I could never go up to a guy and ask him to buy me a drink.

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LOL. I think most of us guys have met a huge number of women trying to get free drinks out of us. The especially sad and hilarious stories of the guys who say the woman takes the drink and immediately walks away. Ouch, that's gotta hurt!

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Depends on the sister. Some love to play wingman for their bro and women are for more effective than men at it.

Regardless, it probably would have prevented her from jacking your cab.

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I think nothing of it, open the door for my sister, when suddenly someone pushes me out of the way. It was the woman.

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File assault charges.

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you guys don't pay for a girl when you go out with them!? I don't mean I go to a bar, meet some broad and pick up her tab. But if i've been sitting with the girl for an hour or so and having fun I will go to the bar and get her and I a drink.


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That's all good, but she's buying the next one. You went a bit further than that in the OP:

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Push back. You'll never be able to live down the fact that your sister saw a girl push you around. lol.

If ANYONE pushes me, girl or not, they ain't getting MY cab.

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After she shoves you out of the way, you should have said, "Yeah you're right I'm not gay, but you're the type of woman that would make me want to change."

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I SO want to punch the girl in the throat, that's really bitch and presumptious.. push her away with your arm, and say "Excuse me fatty"

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Over under on the average age of the last 3 posters? 15?

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Push back. You'll never be able to live down the fact that your sister saw a girl push you around. lol.

If ANYONE pushes me, girl or not, they ain't getting MY cab.

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Personally I hate bullies, men or women. And you don't have to be physical to be a huge bully. I try not to let them take advantage, when I can. Lots of people make a lifestyle out of screwing people over, and I'd rather be a jarring speed bump along their way than another successful screwing over in a long and happy chain.

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Only because too few men respond to "Buy me a drink" with "No but you can buy me one".

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Women actually say that stuff????
I could never go up to a guy and ask him to buy me a drink.

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LOL. I think most of us guys have met a huge number of women trying to get free drinks out of us. The especially sad and hilarious stories of the guys who say the woman takes the drink and immediately walks away. Ouch, that's gotta hurt!

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My gf of a few of years ago would do this when I was at the bar with her! She was some piece of work. I used to think, "What a bunch of suckas." I don't think I ever fell for these antics before, but after seeing how easy it is for attractive women to take advantage of guys I definitely haven't since.

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lol... That's pretty bad. If I were the guy I would take the drink away from her and have the bartender dump it. [img]/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img]

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After she shoves you out of the way, you should have said, "Yeah you're right I'm not gay, but you're the type of woman that would make me want to change."

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What I said to her was much more harsh than that and probably the worst thing I've said to anyone in a while.

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Over under on the average age of the last 3 posters? 15?

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It may be immature, but no more so that what she did, stick her in her place.

(and i turn 20 in november)

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What'd you say?

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Stop or my sister will beat you up? [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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There is no reason you cannot shove someone who just shoved you. Stop buying into the the chivalry thing.

There is no reason whatsoever that this ho needs to shove you like that. Shove her back and tell her to go use her w*oring skills to land some other cab.

I would never hit or shove a girl unless provoked in that fashion. Once that girl throws the rules out the window...well, the rules are out the window. Too bad if she can't handle being shoved by a grown man. Maybe she'll post about it on some internet message board or something, instead of realizing where SHE went wrong.

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Yes, because a 6'4" 250lb. man shoving a 5'4" 110lb. woman will really get me home faster.

FWIW - i would never hit a woman and would hit you before you did.

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There is no reason you cannot shove someone who just shoved you. Stop buying into the the chivalry thing.


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Disparity of force, responding physically when a verbal response is sufficient... but whatever, if you wanna be that guy, have fun.

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yea a shove back is excessive, just brush her out of the way, say something to put her in her place, adn get in the cab after your sister.