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AA suited 12-19-2005 05:46 PM

How do you get over screwing up?
 
Whether it be incorrectly calling an all in for your whole stack, getting a traffic ticket, being expelled from school, caught cheating by wife, etc.

How do you get over that awful feeling?

4_2_it 12-19-2005 06:06 PM

Re: How do you get over screwing up?
 
Accept your action for what it is. Acknowledge the pain you have caused and do your best to make amends. Once you clear your conscience, time has a way of making the pain go away.

12-19-2005 07:07 PM

Re: How do you get over screwing up?
 
Worse comes to worst, I tell myself "it could be worse."

Blow my stack with a bad call? It could be worse. I could have never accumulated that stack to begin with and had the opportunity to play. Remember, the next best thing to playing and winning is playing and losing.

Got a traffic ticket? It could be worse. I could have gotten in a wreck.

Got expelled from school (or in my case, fired?) It could be worse. I could be unable to go to school or work to support myself.

Got caught cheating? (I've never cheated, and I hope I never do.) It could be worse. I could be so ugly/stupid/whatever that no woman would ever want to be with me. She slapped me and burned all my stuff? Could be worse, I could have gotten the Bobbitt.

I think Trump said it best: "I don't have time to worry about what happened or what I could have done differently. That just wastes time that should be spent on planning what I'll do from that point forward."

FWIW - hope this helps.

ScottieK

bkholdem 12-19-2005 10:56 PM

Re: How do you get over screwing up?
 
I have a fool proof solution for you.

1. You need to play naked at your computer.
2. You need to have a strong elastic right there next to your computer with you.
3. Every time you make a play that is idiotic snap yourself HARD right in the nads with the elastic.

12-19-2005 11:07 PM

Re: How do you get over screwing up?
 
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3. Every time you make a play that is idiotic snap yourself HARD right in the nads with the elastic.

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LMAO...

And if that doesn't do it, try a small hammer.

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jzpiano14 12-20-2005 12:04 AM

Re: How do you get over screwing up?
 
[ QUOTE ]
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3. Every time you make a play that is idiotic snap yourself HARD right in the nads with the elastic.

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LMAO...

And if that doesn't do it, try a small hammer.

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but don't forget the nail!

pokerjoker 12-20-2005 12:21 AM

Re: How do you get over screwing up?
 
sex, drugs, and rock n' roll.

U can quasi do these things while playing poker if u try hard enough.

AlanBostick 12-20-2005 02:12 AM

Re: How do you get over screwing up?
 
Getting expelled from school or caught cheating by the wife seem like rather bigger deals than calling all-in for a stack of chips.

Maulik 12-20-2005 11:57 AM

Re: How do you get over screwing up?
 
AA,

For cash games, I review all my big winners & losers after a session. If I remember correct you play SNGs, so if I were you I'd consider looking over as many bubble sessions as possible.

chesspain 12-20-2005 03:26 PM

Re: How do you get over screwing up?
 
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Whether it be incorrectly calling an all in for your whole stack, getting a traffic ticket, being expelled from school, caught cheating by wife, etc.


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Wow, you have had a busy week.


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