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to people who say yes / maybe : is this more likely because you're just trying to get some and don't necessarily care ?

or just for the fun of it and not meaning anything ?

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Yes, all the time. I'm in sales (read: I'm a whore).

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I do it for fun even if I dont remotely think they are attractive. Its more so my personality than outright flirtation.

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anyone who answers yes to this is a woman.

and I dont mean they are like gay homos or something, I mean they really are women, because thats something pretty much only women do

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anyone who answers yes to this is a woman.

and I dont mean they are like gay homos or something, I mean they really are women, because thats something pretty much only women do

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Damned cockteasing sluts!

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I don't see the point of flirting with girls I'm not a little attracted to.

I bet OP had someone flirt with her and is trying to decide if he was attracted to her.

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I don't see the point of flirting with girls I'm not a little attracted to.


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For practice!

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I don't see the point of flirting with girls I'm not a little attracted to.

I bet OP had someone flirt with her and is trying to decide if he was attracted to her.

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no, OP is just woman, so she does this all the time and doesnt realize that men dont do this.

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I answered no. did you catch your depressed out of work bf flirting with some chick?

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I don't see the point of flirting with girls I'm not a little attracted to.

I bet OP had someone flirt with her and is trying to decide if he was attracted to her.

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no, OP is just woman, so she does this all the time and doesnt realize that men dont do this.

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no. i am not much of a flirter, i am shy.
i did post this because a guy was being extra flirty with me the other day, but it was more playful teasing and it doesn't mean anything. it just got me wondering if it means something even if it means nothing you know ?.

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I don't see the point of flirting with girls I'm not a little attracted to.

I bet OP had someone flirt with her and is trying to decide if he was attracted to her.

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no, OP is just woman, so she does this all the time and doesnt realize that men dont do this.

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no. i am not much of a flirter, i am shy.
i did post this because a guy was being extra flirty with me the other day, but it was more playful teasing and it doesn't mean anything. it just got me wondering if it means something even if it means nothing you know ?.

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You could try touching his package and see how he reacts.

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I answered no. did you catch your depressed out of work bf flirting with some chick?

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haha no, my bf works and he's not depressed and he loves me !

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I don't see the point of flirting with girls I'm not a little attracted to.

I bet OP had someone flirt with her and is trying to decide if he was attracted to her.

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no, OP is just woman, so she does this all the time and doesnt realize that men dont do this.

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no. i am not much of a flirter, i am shy.
i did post this because a guy was being extra flirty with me the other day, but it was more playful teasing and it doesn't mean anything. it just got me wondering if it means something even if it means nothing you know ?.

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Trust me, it meant something.

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I don't see the point of flirting with girls I'm not a little attracted to.

I bet OP had someone flirt with her and is trying to decide if he was attracted to her.

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no, OP is just woman, so she does this all the time and doesnt realize that men dont do this.

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no. i am not much of a flirter, i am shy.
i did post this because a guy was being extra flirty with me the other day, but it was more playful teasing and it doesn't mean anything. it just got me wondering if it means something even if it means nothing you know ?.

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Trust me, it meant something.

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but he's getting married this weekend, which is why it was weird. but it probably also explains it.

i think he was just having fun with me. i don't think he's attracted to me. it doesn't matter really.

anyway i just started wondering how often people flirt just for fun , or if that's weird.

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i did post this because a guy was being extra flirty with me the other day, but it was more playful teasing and it doesn't mean anything. it just got me wondering if it means something even if it means nothing you know ?.

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Sally: So you're saying that a man can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive.
Harry: No, you pretty much want to nail them, too.

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I don't see the point of flirting with girls I'm not a little attracted to.

I bet OP had someone flirt with her and is trying to decide if he was attracted to her.

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no, OP is just woman, so she does this all the time and doesnt realize that men dont do this.

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no. i am not much of a flirter, i am shy.
i did post this because a guy was being extra flirty with me the other day, but it was more playful teasing and it doesn't mean anything. it just got me wondering if it means something even if it means nothing you know ?.

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It pretty much always means something.

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I don't see the point of flirting with girls I'm not a little attracted to.

I bet OP had someone flirt with her and is trying to decide if he was attracted to her.

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no, OP is just woman, so she does this all the time and doesnt realize that men dont do this.

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no. i am not much of a flirter, i am shy.
i did post this because a guy was being extra flirty with me the other day, but it was more playful teasing and it doesn't mean anything. it just got me wondering if it means something even if it means nothing you know ?.

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I don't see the point of flirting with girls I'm not a little attracted to.

I bet OP had someone flirt with her and is trying to decide if he was attracted to her.

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no, OP is just woman, so she does this all the time and doesnt realize that men dont do this.

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no. i am not much of a flirter, i am shy.
i did post this because a guy was being extra flirty with me the other day, but it was more playful teasing and it doesn't mean anything. it just got me wondering if it means something even if it means nothing you know ?.

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It pretty much always means something.

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but look at the results of this poll ? the majority is saying they flirt with people they're not attracted to. ??

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sometimes, just because it can be fun.

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Depends on how many shots I have had.

Also, even ugly chicks can give good head.

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Since I'm a massive chickenshit around girls I'm attracted to (when I'm not drinking), I tend to only flirt with girls to which I'm not attracted.

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but he's getting married this weekend, which is why it was weird. but it probably also explains it.

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He wanted you to be his last-minute premarital screw. Was his name Matt, by the way?

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Its not so much serious flirting, but I definitely make an effort to carry on a conversation and seem interested in that conversation even if I'm not attracted to them. It really is practicing for when I am interested. I could also understand if this practice was taken by the girl as serious flirtation.

Alobar, there's a lot of different kinds of flirting. Are you sure you aren't more focused on the cock-tease, buy-me-a-drink variety normally employed by women everywhere?

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also maybe i don't even know what is considered flirting and what isn't. how do you know ?

it was more 'fake flirting' that is how i would describe it. but i still don't know what it really means.

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Ehh...It can mean a lot or it can mean nothing. I flirt with any of my girl friends I am comfortable with and know I won't skeeve out by flirting with them. Sometimes it means I wouldn't mind dating you, sometimes it means "You're hot, I'd hook up with you.", and other times it's just me being like, "You are fun, but not very attractive and I don't want to date you."

Whatever, if you're getting flirted with, it's a good thing. I'll give you that much. Take it as a compliment.

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I answered no, and last I checked I was a woman....we could always check with Frank though.

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depends on if they have something i want [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

but people say im overly friendly and what not to EVERYONE...so most say im flirty [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

so basically yes....90% of the guys i "flirt" with im not interested in

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I don't see the point of flirting with girls I'm not a little attracted to.

I bet OP had someone flirt with her and is trying to decide if he was attracted to her.

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no, OP is just woman, so she does this all the time and doesnt realize that men dont do this.

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no. i am not much of a flirter, i am shy.
i did post this because a guy was being extra flirty with me the other day, but it was more playful teasing and it doesn't mean anything. it just got me wondering if it means something even if it means nothing you know ?.

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It pretty much always means something.

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but look at the results of this poll ? the majority is saying they flirt with people they're not attracted to. ??

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Thats because this forum is made up of dorks who would like to pretend they are good with the ladies. So either they are just answering "yes" because they wish they could flirt with women, or because the only women they would actually have the balls to flirt with are the ones they arent attracted to.

Guys dont flirt with women they arent attracted to because, its a waste of time, and more importantly, the last thing you want is some chick you dont want to bang (read:fat) getting the wrong idea. So if a guy is flirting with a woman, its cuz he would have sex with her given the right opportunity

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So if a guy is flirting with a woman, its cuz he would have sex with her given the right opportunity

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This is a completely separate issue from attraction.

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OMG! I LOVE MAKING SWEEPING STATEMENTS TOOOOOOO!

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this guy wants to dry hump you.

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OMG! I LOVE MAKING SWEEPING STATEMENTS TOOOOOOO!

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Quit acting like you're offended.

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Alobar, there's a lot of different kinds of flirting. Are you sure you aren't more focused on the cock-tease, buy-me-a-drink variety normally employed by women everywhere?

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Thats what Im talking about, thats flirting. Just making eye contact and being friendly with someone isnt flirting, thats just called being pleasant.

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I only flirt with super models.

Well, if you call slinging my 14" penis around like a helicopter rotor flirting.

How big is your internet penis, Gorie?

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this guy wants to dry hump you.

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that's hot. guys usually don't like me like that, though ! i think it was just having fun in my case which is cool. still, i like pretending theres a deep underlying meaning while we pretend like we're just joking around because i like when people like me.but i know the truth ! [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

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that's hot. guys usually don't like me like that, though ! i think it was just having fun in my case which is cool. still, i like pretending theres a deep underlying meaning while we pretend like we're just joking around because i like when people like me.but i know the truth ! [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

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maybe he just sensed you have low self esteem and thought you were an easy mark

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Heh, I'm not offended and that's not what I was trying to express. That statement was meant to read as, "The statement to which I am replying does not apply to myself."

I can flirt with a girl and it doesn't mean I want to get into her pants. I am generally annoyed by guys who are constantly trying to get into girls' pants, and to say that because I flirt with women I am one of these guys, annoys me.

So, I'm not offended, just annoyed.

Whatever, this thread of conversation is going to devolve into people calling me a dork who pretends to be good with women, but I've already been called that since I voted yes in the poll...

P.S.: What I don't understand is, posts made about sleeping/hooking up with woman are ragged on as brag posts, but then people make sweeping statements about the population of 2+2 posters as loser dorks. I just don't understand the amount machismo some posters (such as Alobar) display. It's a little ridiculous.

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that's hot. guys usually don't like me like that, though ! i think it was just having fun in my case which is cool. still, i like pretending theres a deep underlying meaning while we pretend like we're just joking around because i like when people like me.but i know the truth ! [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

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maybe he just sensed you have low self esteem and thought you were an easy mark

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well, duh. i knew that already.

but does that mean guys intentionally flirt with girls they know have low self esteem just to pick on them ?