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This is simultaneously the most hilarious and painful thing I've ever read. I think the best way to describe it in internet terms is "ROFLshit"

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I wasnt even thinking about stacy, it just like came out.

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is this even possible?

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I never would have thought so...but it is, because thats what happened.

which is effed up because my only excuse is "I wasnt even thinking about her!!!" which just sounds really retarded and helps my case out zero

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my point is, it would seem that you were indeed thinking about her on some level ... it just happened to be on a level of which you were not consciously aware.

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If you want to keep your girlfirend, you just have to beg for forgiveness. Beg really hard.

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If you want to keep you girlfirend, you just have to beg for fogiveness. Beg really hard.

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that, and you might have to end your friendship with stacy altogether.

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If you want to keep you girlfirend, you just have to beg for fogiveness. Beg really hard.

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that, and you might have to end your friendship with stacy altogether.

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ugh, thats not so cut and dry considering stacy and my GF are friends, and ive actually known stacy for quite a while now, I couldnt just stop being her friend.

I suck at begging too.

As for the subconcious level thinking, hell I dunno, I guess its possible. I think more than likely its just cuz I was totally smashed and my mind was shut down cuz it was an unreal BJ. Im trying to put myself in her shoes and id be pretty upset to, and no way would I believe some lame "uh...I wasnt really thinking about him, it just sorta came out"

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Alright I gave this some serious thought and

I got nothing

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i'm guessing that your title and location aren't helping anything.

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Coulda been worse. Could been 'oh, mom!'

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Coulda been worse. Could been 'oh, mom!'

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Classic.

As to the OP, you are totally and completely assfucked. Say goodbye to those killer BJ's from your girlfriend. I've got absolutely NOTHING to help you. Your girl thinks you were cheating on her, there is nothing you can say to REALLY make her feel any differently (even if she does claim to believe you, it's not true).

So...maybe you don't have to say goodbye to her BJ's, but...this relationship will absolutely never work out long-term...not that it was going to, anyway (you clearly still want Stacy...and that want indicates you're not THAT into your gf).

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Alobar - this happened to me (I'm sure this has happened to alot of guys). After she stormed out(we were at my place), I just let her cool out and called her the next day, came over with flowers. She eventually understood (after much apologizing) it was some weird residual memory [censored], and it happens. But my ex-gf was also way out of the picture...

Just reassess tomorrow. She'll probably (since she sounds like a cool, level-headed chick) be much less freaked next time you see her.

Hopefully your "Oh Stacy" did not bring out some unpleasant subconscious [censored] and your gf will really start to become bothered / insecure with your friendship with Stacy. If that's the case, all "Oh Stacy" did was speed up something that probably would've come out at some point, anyway.

-Al