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odellthurman 11-14-2005 04:19 PM

Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
Here is a post from Paul Phillips' website - extempore.livejournal.com - -

"This looks like a fun situation to dissect a little ways.

First, a summary of the salient facts. I began a thread on 2+2 which grew to 50+ posts before the entire thread was summarily deleted by mat sklansky. I was then contacted via private message by mason malmuth, who pronounced that if I did not apology both privately and publicly I would no longer be allowed to post at 2+2. After I posted a less than completely sincere apology that included a reference to the hitler youth, mason "permanently" banned me. When the situation attracted sufficient negative attention they decided to hold a poll about whether or not I should be reinstated. The voters called for unbanning by about an 80/20 margin, so unbanned I was. My original post and mason's message are included in this earlier entry. Also of historical interest are the 300+ post apology thread and the poll regarding reinstatement. There are numerous other threads that touch on the banning that you can read if you are possessed of sufficient masochism. Most or all of these threads have been locked; the moderator says the issue is resolved so it must be true.

I have some thoughts.

1) It has always been a condition of my participation at 2+2 that none of my posts be deleted. I have asserted this several times publicly and privately, and I had reiterated it again in the post that began the deleted thread. The charming crowd that looks to infer the ugliest possible motivation for everything I do viewed that assertion as some kind of self-aggrandizing "look how important I am" threat. In reality it was born solely of a sincere desire to avoid this exact situation. I knew without uncertainty that if one of my posts was ever deleted I would be done with 2+2: there would be no second chances. Given that, I thought it worthwhile to at least try to make the moderator think a little harder before hitting the big red button. No such luck, but it's hard to claim I didn't make the effort.

I put some effort into my writing. It may not always be brilliant but that doesn't mean I don't value it all. At 2+2 the value of my writing is so low that it can be capriciously deleted without warning or explanation at any time. As long as that was only hypothetical I was willing to fade it, but no longer. It'd be like voluntarily resuming an abusive relationship. And let's not forget about the 50+ other posts that were deleted along with my opening post, posts whose only crime was proximity. Look at how casually they irreversibly deleted posts from a couple dozen different people. Either they don't mind losing a couple dozen posters all at once, or they don't think people care if their posts are deleted for no reason. In either case they prove themselves completely unfit to operate a forum. It's hard to imagine how mason thought that my participation there was so valuable to me that I'd grovel before him. Who does he think gets more out of the deal when I post there, them or me?

2) The younger sklansky explains his reasoning here. I don't see any reason to disbelieve his version, which is damning enough unvarnished. What kind of person is mason malmuth? He's the sort to send a demand for apologies both public and private based on a post he had never seen. When the actual content of the offending post comes to light and it is obvious that they wildly overreacted, rather than simply unban me he hides behind a poll whose outcome was never in doubt. And he's the sort of person who despite being quick to demand apologies for an imagined wrong, offers none himself for a genuine one.

I wonder how this situation would have played out if someone had not saved a copy of my original post. Just imagine how mason would have behaved had I not been able to produce it. He'd be authoritatively assuring everyone that I was banned deservedly, based on the content of a post he had never seen.

3) As I predicted privately, certain 2+2 revisionists wasted no time in acting like I was banned because I made a nazi reference. When I started mentioning nazis my days at 2+2 were already over and I was just having some fun with my last couple comments. The thing is, nazis are funny. If you can watch "springtime for hitler" in the producers and not piss yourself laughing then I question the development of your sense of humor. Anyone who has been around the net for more than a day or two should know what nazi comparisons mean: nothing. It was quite hilarious seeing people deconstruct my comment as if I were a prosecutor at nuremberg trying mason malmuth for war crimes. Addressing a ridiculous nazi comparison in earnest makes you look like you just opened your AOL account yesterday.

Also, I should mention that "and the rest of the hitler youth" is a movie reference. I guess it's asking too much to expect everyone to recognize it as such but happily at least one person did. Kids these days! That movie should be on the mandatory memorization list.

4) I have never made any secret of the fact that I delete comments and ban people from my blog, so naturally people who wander through life contextually challenged claim this makes me a hypocrite. Let's see how many differences I can think of:

* I don't make any pretense of (or at all aspire to) running a forum. This is my personal blog. If a comment in my blog isn't valuable to me personally then I might delete it and ban the poster. The fact that others might find the posted comments of interest is purely incidental. I've been clear about this from day one.
* When I delete posts and ban people you don't hear about it. I just remove the noise and move on. I feel safe in saying nobody misses the people I've banned. The only impact is a less noisy blog.
* I take deletion seriously. I don't do it figuring if I'm overzealous I can claim a mistake and everything will be better. I know what a burned bridge looks like.
* I don't at all begrudge 2+2 the right to delete posts and ban users. I do think people have a right to know what rules (or lack thereof) apply there so they can make their own decisions about whether to patronize 2+2. Remember that they make money by selling advertising that piggybacks on your words. As a poster there you provide them with free content to sell. Do you think they deserve it?

5) Here is a good summary of what you can expect at 2+2.

Mason: It is our policy at Two Plus Two to hold other writers to higher standards, that policy is now extended to well known public figures in poker such as yourself.
Mat: So I did not feel all that bad deleting this post. Keep in mind, however, that had I realized before I deleted the post that I was deleting "THE Paul Phillips", I would not have.

It is nice to simultaneously be held to both a higher and a lower standard than everyone else. Such well-thought out policy means fair-minded, unobtrusive moderation is a given."

gulebjorn 11-14-2005 04:41 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
let me be the first to say: tl;dr

PsYcHo-ScHnAuZeR 11-14-2005 04:45 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
This confirms that Paul essentially banned himself, and his banning was inevitable given his irrational self-proclaimed conditions on his being a poster here.

B Dids 11-14-2005 05:19 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
I like Paul, but he's coming off like a 100% infant here.

He made a trolling post and refuses to admit it.

Beavis68 11-14-2005 05:23 PM

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I like Paul, but he's coming off like a 100% infant here.

He made a trolling post and refuses to admit it.

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What is really funny is that he has banned me from his site, even though I have only posted 2 or 3 times in the last year, and those posts were not controversial and are still up.

Maybe because I posted here that he didn't really add anything to the site and was arrogant?

Vincent Lepore 11-14-2005 05:30 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
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he has banned me from his site

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Me too. And for the life of me I don't know why. We were such good buddies. Broke my heart.

Vince

Fallen Hero 11-14-2005 06:23 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
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I like Paul, but he's coming off like a 100% infant here.

He made a trolling post and refuses to admit it.

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"When I started mentioning nazis my days at 2+2 were already over and I was just having some fun with my last couple comments"

toots 11-14-2005 06:37 PM

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I'm with paul. I'm finding the cult of personality around here to be a bit onerous, and it has worn a bit thin.

For now, perhaps I'll join up with PP's cult of personality until I get tired of that one, too.

I'm not saying that PP conducted himself maturely or wisely here, but I am saying that the cult here has managed to do a fairly effective job of deflecting what would have been a discussion of hypocrisy and moderation gone awry to be all about PP's choice of words.

I'll take someone's personal blog, where he has the guts to admit that he'll capriciously ban someone for pissing him off, over this place where thin skinned behavior is blamed on the victim and all criticism is deflected behind a smokescreen of presumed, yet nonexistent "objectivity."

Autocratic 11-14-2005 06:40 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
Paul clearly wishes to be thought of as someone far more significant than the average poster here. Perhaps he is/was in the sense that most people are going to pay more attention to what he says, but the conditions he sets on his posting here, as if he's doing us a great priviledge with his 300 or so posts, are ridiculous.

benkahuna 11-14-2005 06:43 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
toots, nicely put. It sounds rather righteous of me to say, but what it really comes down to is honesty in moderation.

As for Paul, like most people that produce worthwhile content, he's honest. He even admits to heckling on his way out the door.

It's clear that Paul wasn't a good fit for this forum. It's too bad.

TomHimself 11-14-2005 06:45 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
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Mason: It is our policy at Two Plus Two to hold other writers to higher standards, that policy is now extended to well known public figures in poker such as yourself.
Mat: So I did not feel all that bad deleting this post. Keep in mind, however, that had I realized before I deleted the post that I was deleting "THE Paul Phillips", I would not have.

It is nice to simultaneously be held to both a higher and a lower standard than everyone else. Such well-thought out policy means fair-minded, unobtrusive moderation is a given."

[/ QUOTE ] lol

11-14-2005 06:48 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
The problem many posters are apparently having stems from this strange desire to equivocate. "My posts can be deleted; Paul is just the same." Certainly this forum needs to have rules and structure, but if you think Paul just didn't like having his posts deleted, you're missing the point.

Some posters have argued that because Paul didn't post much, he wouldn't be missed. Wrong. It is precisely because Paul didn't post much that he will be greatly missed. His posts were articulate and noteworthy. Conversely, plenty of posters seem to envision a daily quota for themselves to meet. This doesn't mean their posts are without value; it simply means that we should be careful not to equate a lack of quantity with a lack of quality.

Paul was simply making it clear that if his posts were to be tossed into the void, it would no longer be worth his time to compose his thoughts in this forum. That might annoy you, but it's a valid stance for someone who makes a point of not wasting his leisure time.

uncleshady 11-14-2005 06:49 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
"The rest of the Hitler Youth"

http://gorillanation.studiostore.com.../ANH/pcANH.jpg

TimTimSalabim 11-14-2005 06:51 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
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Paul clearly wishes to be thought of as someone far more significant than the average poster here.

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And clearly he is. Do you think that there would be hundreds of posts in response and a poll from Mason if this was just an average 300-post Joe Schmo being banned?

Smoothcall 11-14-2005 06:56 PM

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Paul should we all bow or applaud everytime you enter the forum once all your demands are met so you can grace us with your presence again? [img]/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

B Dids 11-14-2005 06:57 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
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I like Paul, but he's coming off like a 100% infant here.

He made a trolling post and refuses to admit it.

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"When I started mentioning nazis my days at 2+2 were already over and I was just having some fun with my last couple comments"

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To be clear- I'm talking about his first, pre-nazi post.

Paul had a point he wanted to make about how the forum was run. He choose to do it like a pissed off 10 year old instead of attempting to present a decent argument (which is a shame, because he's smart enough, and knows this kind of thing well enough to do so).

I've been pretty critical of how this forum was moderated, and said so, but in a hopefully more lucid fashion, and like look... green!

I think that any good forum has to listen to people when they have issues about how it's being run, but I wouldn't expect anybody to listen to a word somebody says if they're not going to express it with some thought and a degree of respect.

Beavis68 11-14-2005 06:58 PM

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His posts were articulate and noteworthy.

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Right, those were the top ten vote-getters.

o/~ One of these kids is not like the other... one of these kids is doing his (or her) own thing... another of these kids was added at the last minute... o/~

It's a little soon to be so grossly revisionist, isn't it? But then, they seem to feel entitled to lie.

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You implicitly attribute to me something I never said, then proceed to rely on the second-hand word of a poker player about his folded cards (as if that information were safely reliable) to demonstrate that I was wrong about what I never said in the first place.

That is a tough burn to take. I know it's the most exciting thing in the world for a guy like you to nail me with such a zinger, but you might get a bigger laugh (even by the relaxed standards of the vegetable garden that is your intended audience) if you wait for occasions where I am demonstrably wrong.

But keep swinging! Even a broken clock gets there twice a day.

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Be that as it may, your choice of example is quite amusing because it defines your true reason as "he makes me feel dumb" instead of what you were hoping it was "easy" to see. There were probably dozens of examples you could have chosen that would have obscured this reality but unfortunately for you the same quality that allowed you to choose this example prevents you from identifying a better one.



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Smoothcall 11-14-2005 07:15 PM

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I don't get why so many care whether paul phillips is here. If he wants to post fine. if he doesn't his loss. end of story. Why does everyone kiss his butt? Does he pay you guys to go around telling everyone how important he is?

TomCollins 11-14-2005 07:20 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
He provides something you and Vince have never once provided...

interesting comments that have been worth reading.

B Dids 11-14-2005 07:26 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
It should be pretty clear that somebody with Paul's specific knowledge and insight would be a great value to this forum. He's one of the more active pros in terms of being online, visable and sharing his opinions.

benkahuna 11-14-2005 07:41 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
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I don't get why so many care whether paul phillips is here. If he wants to post fine. if he doesn't his loss. end of story. Why does everyone kiss his butt? Does he pay you guys to go around telling everyone how important he is?

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This comment feels rhetorical and smarmy, but if you seriously don't understand why people value his input, you're either inattentive or don't understand the comments of others very well.

And, to be clear, my reply relates to why people care if he's here in the sense that if he's not here, we must search elsewhere for his input.

A lot of people don't kiss his butt, including me. I find him interesting because he's insightful, provocative, and highly experienced at large buy-in poker tournaments. And he clearly puts a great deal of thought into his posts, much more than almost anyone on this site. I forgive his ego and other imperfections because I'd rather have brutal honesty and playfulness than droll politeness, because I have a similarly large ego so I don't find his threatening or really bothersome, and because I value intelligence more than I value conformity or politeness. I also appreciate Paul's strong convictions.

Given the nature of gamblers and poker players generally and how they so often do not fit into the mainstream 9-5 culture of US and Western World with regular schedules and corporate overlords, it's entirely unsurprising that they many of them have a predilection for Paul's posts and his presence here. The response to the loss of Paul on this site was quite predictable. Some people say "we lost something good" while others say "screw him for his ego and/or audacity."

There's also a clear trend of people being incredibly critical of public figures on this site. Given the response to the the poll despite that trend says a lot to me about the strength of people's leanings.

Beavis68 11-14-2005 07:46 PM

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It should be pretty clear that somebody with Paul's specific knowledge and insight would be a great value to this forum. He's one of the more active pros in terms of being online, visable and sharing his opinions.

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you would think that, but go through his last 28 posts and see if more than 4 have any value.

PsYcHo-ScHnAuZeR 11-14-2005 07:48 PM

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It should be pretty clear that somebody with Paul's specific knowledge and insight would be a great value to this forum. He's one of the more active pros in terms of being online, visable and sharing his opinions.

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That is beside the point. His absense is his choice. He basically said, "You make one mistake and I am gone" and the inevitable mistake happened and he went.

Plus, he acted like a child (but that is also beside the point)

J_V 11-14-2005 07:49 PM

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The problem many posters are apparently having stems from this strange desire to equivocate.

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B Dids 11-14-2005 07:52 PM

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I'm just saying why, in theory, it would be nice to have him around. I understand that A- he won't be B- he wasn't exactly posting up a storm of excellence.

However, I think that that's partially because the tone of this forum has been really lousy for about a year, and in theory that's something I can try and help do something about.

Autocratic 11-14-2005 07:53 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
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Paul clearly wishes to be thought of as someone far more significant than the average poster here.

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And clearly he is. Do you think that there would be hundreds of posts in response and a poll from Mason if this was just an average 300-post Joe Schmo being banned?

[/ QUOTE ]

Like I said in my original post, being more important in some ways than other poster should not equate to better treatment, which is what he essentially requested by demanding that his posts never be deleted lest he deem the forum unworthy.

benkahuna 11-14-2005 07:56 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
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[ QUOTE ]
It should be pretty clear that somebody with Paul's specific knowledge and insight would be a great value to this forum. He's one of the more active pros in terms of being online, visable and sharing his opinions.

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you would think that, but go through his last 28 posts and see if more than 4 have any value.

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Small sample size + hypercritical numerical ratio re: metaphysical term (value) = comment lacking even metavalue.


Yes, this post contains self-referential irony.

Smoothcall 11-14-2005 08:20 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
You value intelligence more than politeness? Do you mean as far as how it can benefit you? or do you mean you value it more in a person in general?

benkahuna 11-14-2005 08:38 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
More in a person in general is what I was thinking.

For me, I find intelligence more useful, but I still am polite most of the time.

Michael C. 11-14-2005 09:09 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
Like I said before, I think banning him was ridiculous. At the same time, his comments from his blog are really churlish, and his justification of his Nazi line is just wrong. SO yeah, he does come off as arrogant, and he really doesn't seem to care all that much what others think, since he seems to already have all the answers...

Beavis68 11-14-2005 09:15 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
that is all there is that hasn't been archived. His signal to noise raitio is terrible, probably one good post for 10 trying to cause trouble in one way or another.

Vincent Lepore 11-14-2005 10:19 PM

Is Phillips serious about his Nazi\'s being funny?
 
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When I started mentioning nazis my days at 2+2 were already over and I was just having some fun with my last couple comments. The thing is, nazis are funny

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you can watch "springtime for hitler" in the producers and not piss yourself laughing then I question the development of your sense of humor.

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Spring time for Hitler - is that what people think about when someone likens somthiething to nazism? Besides Springtime for Hitler was not a movie that "poked" fun at Nazis. It was a movie that ridiculed Nazis and everything they stood for.

No people don't think about the movie "springtime for hitler" when the they think about Nazis. They think about names like Hitler, Himmler and Eichman. They think about places like Dachau, Buchenwald and Aushwitz. Ask survivors of Nazi terror if they find them amusing. Ask any World War Two Vet (if you can find one alive) if they think anything associated with Nazism is funny.

Mason Malmuth is jewish. Mason is also an amatuer historian. He knows very well what happened under the guise of Nazism. I can tell you that if something I were associated with were compared with Nazism I would be outraged and I'm not jewish. I can only imagine how that must make Mason feel. I made the same mistake that Phillips made. I likened Dynasty's actions to those of the Nazi's. I was wrong. Just because I was mad did not give me thright to make light of such a horrible era in the history and minds of a whole people.

In my opinion Phillips owes Mason and this forum an apology if for no other reason than his insensitive Nazi comments.

Vince

Vincent Lepore 11-14-2005 10:23 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
Post Deleted.

This thread is about Phillips, and it's goofy at best. Let's not turn it into an argument about anything else.

- Dids

pokergripes 11-14-2005 11:12 PM

Re: Paul Phillips post on his website about 2+2
 
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I don't get why so many care whether paul phillips is here. If he wants to post fine. if he doesn't his loss. end of story. Why does everyone kiss his butt? Does he pay you guys to go around telling everyone how important he is?

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Because his posts are generally very funny, and also often very educational to boot. If your posts were ever either of those, people would have more respect for you, too. Do you see why? [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

pokergripes 11-14-2005 11:16 PM

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It should be pretty clear that somebody with Paul's specific knowledge and insight would be a great value to this forum. He's one of the more active pros in terms of being online, visable and sharing his opinions.

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Absolutely. And the fact that Mason can't just say "sorry Paul, I was wrong about this one" is kind of sad and a waste. At least Mat said he was sorry about it (sort of, anyway). Like I wrote in my "What a Jopke" thread (locked but not deleted I think), a simple "sorry Paul, please come back" would probably work to bring him back... [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

pokergripes 11-14-2005 11:19 PM

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he has banned me from his site

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Me too. And for the life of me I don't know why. We were such good buddies. Broke my heart.

Vince

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The fact that PP was even temporarily banned, on the one hand, while Vince (&) Smoothcall are still welcome to post, has got to be one of life's great ironies. And I say that as someone who actually likes you, Vince...! [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

Daliman 11-14-2005 11:35 PM

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I like Paul, but he's coming off like a 100% infant here.

He made a trolling post and refuses to admit it.

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What part specifically did you feel was trollish? Unless you are just saying that giving an opinion that is critical is trolling, I disagree with your contention.

Vincent Lepore 11-14-2005 11:41 PM

My post here deleted but this stays
 
You delete my post about Tom Collns but leave the below. I guess it is on topic even though it is about me and smoothcall.

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The fact that PP was even temporarily banned, on the one hand, while Vince (&) Smoothcall are still welcome to post, has got to be one of life's great ironies. And I say that as someone who actually likes you, Vince...!

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Vince

Beavis68 11-15-2005 12:04 AM

Re: Is Phillips serious about his Nazi\'s being funny?
 
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When I started mentioning nazis my days at 2+2 were already over and I was just having some fun with my last couple comments. The thing is, nazis are funny

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you can watch "springtime for hitler" in the producers and not piss yourself laughing then I question the development of your sense of humor.

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Spring time for Hitler - is that what people think about when someone likens somthiething to nazism? Besides Springtime for Hitler was not a movie that "poked" fun at Nazis.

Vince

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Charlie Chaplin did, and just about every Mel Brooks movie, The Blues Brothers did too.

Beavis68 11-15-2005 12:05 AM

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Post Deleted.

This thread is about Phillips, and it's goofy at best. Let's not turn it into an argument about anything else.

- Dids

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This kind of "moderating" is ruining 2+2.


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