On Cuddling...
 

over the past few months, ive seen many posters being teased for talking about cuddling with a girl. in particular i remember whiskeytown's thread about the girl falling asleep at his house and people calling him a [censored] for just cuddling her. i am a big proponent of cuddling, but perhaps i am a bit of a pussy. physical contact with someone you care about is generally very satisfying. cuddling also does wonders for getting more than cuddling. all in all, i think it gets a bad rap from many oot "bros".

rj

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With whiskeytown, the point wasn't about cuddling. Cuddling someone you love is fine and fun (but don't talk about it).

This was just some random bar skank who he brought back to his place, could probably have banged with minimal effort but instead cuddled with her which must have been boring as hell because he couldn't know her well enough to care about her, then he came and posted on 2+2 about it.

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cuddling also does wonders for getting more than cuddling.

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Way to save face so you don't look like a total pussy.. [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]
I agree with your entire post though. Maybe we wouldn't have all these 'Are you lonely' polls if these guys started having some contact with someone other than themselves.

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i know im wayyy lonely after 2 nights without girlfriend. and yeah, cuddling some random bar skank does sound like a bad idea, i guess i forgot about that part.

rj

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Ilike cuddling. just not after sex when you're hot and sweaty and tired. Otherwise, it's very nice. The close nonsexual contact just feels very good.

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Ilike cuddling. just not after sex when you're hot and sweaty and tired. Otherwise, it's very nice. The close nonsexual contact just feels very good.

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Ilike cuddling. just not after sex when you're hot and sweaty and tired. Otherwise, it's very nice. The close nonsexual contact just feels very good.

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this is the best time for close nonsexual contact... just got to ventelate yourselves so its not too hot.

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God, I miss cuddling.

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not exactly random bar skank...

more like fellow musician at the open stage - so we're all there PLAYING music -

and it was either try to get my foot in the door that way or let her drive home drunk alone - or worse yet, with a REAL [censored] -

I still defend my choice - even though I didn't see her again...if this apt. had been clean at the time, I would have.

The most interesting part of the story is this is when I gave up on drinking and started smoking weed instead - much better overall lately - esp. when I wake up in the mornings...

RB

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Everyone here says cuddling with hookers is wrong but I'll do it again I'm sure.

-Michael

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I think cuddling is better with someone you barely know--much more to talk about.

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The most interesting part of the story is this is when I gave up on drinking and started smoking weed instead - much better overall lately - esp. when I wake up in the mornings...

RB

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this is the most underrated aspect of weed. no hangover.

rj

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The most interesting part of the story is this is when I gave up on drinking and started smoking weed instead - much better overall lately - esp. when I wake up in the mornings...

RB

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this is the most underrated aspect of weed. no hangover.

rj

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I usually feel tired/rundown the next day, but no real hangover of sorts. Also, my eyes are puffy.




As far as the cuddling, its my test to see if I really like her or not. I dont cuddle one night stands/booty call type girls, but the ones I have a connection with I do. Dunno why, I just seem to want to with girls I actually want to spend time with (other than sex).

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good point - just sitting there for 2 hrs when you can't sleep and they fall asleep is no fun -

seems like I always have to piss 10 min. after they fall asleep - with my arm wrapped around somewhere that I have to wake them up to get it out of there.

RB

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Max Power doesn't cuddle...

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Everyone here says cuddling with hookers is wrong but I'll do it again I'm sure.

-Michael

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You are my hero, btw

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I can cuddle or fall asleep. I can't do both

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Max Power doesn't cuddle...

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you just strap in and feel the g's

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yeah I know I'm missing the point here but everytime I try to read the posts I get distracted by your avatar PITTM. Who is the girl?

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this is true - I shared a room with him once - [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] - he was the gentleman and took the cot -

RB

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yeah I know I'm missing the point here but everytime I try to read the posts I get distracted by your avatar PITTM. Who is the girl?

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MY AVATAR FAQ

rj

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In the words of Woody Allen...

"The best part of masturbation is the cuddling aftewards".