Would you let your GF sleep in the same bed with another guy?
 

First I would like to say this post is entirely unrelated to the "Would you let your girlfriend go skinny dipping with other guys thread".
Here is the situation, a long distance relationship that has lasted for about a year. Her best friend, who happens to be a guy, recently became homeless and is in transition to buy a new house. She has a small apartment and the guy asked to move in with her for a few weeks, the only place to sleep is on the bed. She sais nothing is going to happen but im not sure if I trust her that much. I say let him sleep on the floor and no problem, but obv. she sais he would be uncomfortable. What is the correct play in this situation?

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Punt

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She doesn't have a couch?

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Preemptive breakup.

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just a love seat.

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I'm sure there's a couch he can sleep on somewhere.

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By the way, this topic is useless without a poll. Oh, and nekkid pics of the girl.

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I was that guy one time.

PS... I nailed your girlfriend that night Matt.

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do the words "hell" and "no" mean anything to you? [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

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Assuming you trust that nothing is going to happen, I'd probably let it go. It would bother me, but I wouldn't not allow it.

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I'm sure there's a couch he can sleep on somewhere.

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This reminds me of a Seinfeld episode...

JERRY: You spent the night at James's? Did we?

ELAINE: Yeah but we reversed positions so there was no funny business.

JERRY: Reversed positions?

ELAINE: Yeah, you know, head to toe.

JERRY: So what your genitals are still lined up.

ELAINE: No, because I slept with my back to him.

[long pause - no comment from the guys]



P.S. HELL no.

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"The guy asked to move in with her for a few weeks"
"The only place to sleep is on the bed"

Let me put this into the analysis machine...

Calling Bison!
 

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If the guy is a eunuch, then maybe .

Otherwise, you've got to be [censored] kidding.

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It's completely absurd to say that no other sleeping arrangements could be made. Be creative.

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became homeless and is in transition to buy a new house.

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This does not make sense to me. How can you be homeless and buy a house. You need money to buy a house.
He should have planned better, now he can stay at a hotel.

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I love this pic.

-d

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nh.

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he has money but has recently been kicked out of his current residence, he is now in the process of buying a new place, no he is'nt rich, but is fine.

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he has money but has recently been kicked out of his current residence, he is now in the process of buying a new place, no he is'nt rich, but is fine.

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Either go w/ my air matress suggestion or he needs to stay at a different friends place.

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actually I would love to get bisonbisons advice on this, i hope he will grace this thread with a reply.

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I hate to be sterotypical, but the majority of girls that Ive met whose best friends are guys have hooked up with them on one occassion in the past.

But this guy has no other friends he can stay with?

Buy an air matress. Would she want you to sleep with a girl that you were friends with?

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I love when women will ask their boyfriends questions like this, expecting the boyfriend to be understanding because "nothing will happen". And then if you show *any* kind of reluctance to go along with what she wants, you're being a jealous controlling jerk.

It's a no-win situation. You either let her sleep in the same bed with some guy who will be thinking about sticking it in her every night (and will inevitably try to do so -- probably after they've both been drinking), or you have her break up with you because she feels that "you don't trust her".

Either way she gets screwed by her new roommate. Enjoy.

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she has "hooked up" with this guy in the past. probably should have mentioned that in the original thread, but they have been just friends for 5-6 years.

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Try Here.

-d

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Honestly, it's not surprising they have hooked up. Now they are sleeping in the bed together? You're asking for a temptation induced disaster.

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I love when women will ask their boyfriends questions like this, expecting the boyfriend to be understanding because "nothing will happen". And then if you show *any* kind of reluctance to go along with what she wants, you're being a jealous controlling jerk.

It's a no-win situation. You either let her sleep in the same bed with some guy who will be thinking about sticking it in her every night (and will inevitably try to do so -- probably after they've both been drinking), or you have her break up with you because she feels that "you don't trust her".

Either way she gets screwed by her new roommate. Enjoy.

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she has "hooked up" with this guy in the past. probably should have mentioned that in the original thread, but they have been just friends for 5-6 years.

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Sweet. This means that he'll know right away what it takes to get her off when he eventually does her. It'll save them both some time.

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Good God man!! This make it even worse! Read my earlier post ten times before you make a decision. You have just described an exact circumstance I was in. I didn't intend to do anything but sleep next to the girl but somehow I ended up sleeping with the girl.

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I love when women will ask their boyfriends questions like this, expecting the boyfriend to be understanding because "nothing will happen". And then if you show *any* kind of reluctance to go along with what she wants, you're being a jealous controlling jerk.

It's a no-win situation. You either let her sleep in the same bed with some guy who will be thinking about sticking it in her every night (and will inevitably try to do so -- probably after they've both been drinking), or you have her break up with you because she feels that "you don't trust her".

Either way she gets screwed by her new roommate. Enjoy.

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No. He is just a bitter little fishy.

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this image is very, very awesome.

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Girls can have guy friends like this. The guy definitely wants to hit that though. No doubt about that. How comfortable about that are you?

Them hooking up in the past makes it a bigger chance that something might happen, but it's an even bigger chance that nothing will happen.

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Doesn't this guy have any single male friends? Any family?
Why exactly is the same bed as an ex-GF the only option?

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She doesn't have a couch?

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how about: She doesn't have a floor?

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Doesn't this guy have any single male friends? Any family?
Why exactly is the same bed as an ex-GF the only option?

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I dont know much about the guy, he was kicked out of his hosue because he lived with his family and was kicked out (i think).

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She doesn't have a couch?

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how about: She doesn't have a floor?

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Answered in the OP.

-d

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This might help.

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I speak the truth, my friend.

If you don't want to break up with her, you should tell her that you're not thrilled with the situation, but inevitably it's her life and her decision. With any luck, homeless dude will try to screw her the first night, she'll freak out, and then he'll be back on the street.

Is there any way you can purchase an inflatable bed as a "gift" for her, so that they don't need to sleep together? The fact that she's telling you that her bed is the *only* place he can sleep is the most bizarre part about this.

Of course, buying the inflatable bed will probably result in the "You don't trust me!" accusations to start flying, so this might not be all that great a solution either.