Re: guys, what do you do in this situation?
 

I basically agree.

Did you ever hear someone say how [dumb / naive / stupid / foolish / immature] they were back in the day? Old people say this constantly.

I've always been paranoid about looking back at my life someday and realizing how stupid I was. I guess not everyone shares this fear.

I get this sinking feeling that this thread, and many others like it, will become the fodder for such regrets down the line if people take a look at the archives in 5 or 10 years when they have some more maturity.

Surprisingly, (or not) I don't have a fear that someday I'll realize I was a big jerk, which is exactly what the original poster will probably call me, and maybe he's right, but I'm definitely not predisposed against you, or anyone else on these forums.

It just so happens that I think this is a pretty trivial and immature topic to seriously analyze, and I suspect you might agree with me someday.

Rob

Re: guys, what do you do in this situation?
 

no

Re: guys, what do you do in this situation?
 

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I just pull out my money and start to pay. If she says hold on and hands me money cool, if not i just pay and know she is just a ho sucking off of mankind like the rest.

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you big p#ssy! I never pay - period. I provide the the cock they should pay for the meal. If you have to pay all the time you should consider some penis enlargement options. Once they get the thunder - I aint payin!!

Re: guys, what do you do in this situation?
 

I'm immature because I take a poll of the people of OOT, asking what they do in a common social situation? Ok guy, whatever.

Re: guys, what do you do in this situation?
 

Are you actually claiming that you can truly be friends with a girl? No other motives on either side?

This is obviously a troll. I call BS.

Re: guys, what do you do in this situation?
 

My close girlfriends will ante up their fair share, I mean they offer to take the bill occasionally. Girls now-a-days seem to be throwing money around no prob.

I like it.

outs

Re: guys, what do you do in this situation?
 

learly the answer is

pay for it
and say to girl
"You get mine next time, K?"

Re: guys, what do you do in this situation?
 

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pay for it
and say to girl
"You get mine next time, K?"

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Never saw this thread until today but this is far and away the best answer. Just say "I got it, next time you get it.", and if you truly consider her just a friend, let her get it next time.

It seems that a lot of OOT either don't have girls they consider just "friends". Or they are the type that categorize the women they hang out with into two categories: "girls I've banged" and "girls I haven't banged but I'm still trying to".

DN

Re: guys, what do you do in this situation?
 

Hmmm, doesn't sound right. Female friends I've had - if I buy them a drink, they just get the next one, nothing needs to be said. Just like male friends.

If it's different from this, surely one or both of you think there's more here (potentially) than friend stuff... (or the woman is just exploiting her female status to get drinks).