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25 & 20? please it's not even worth mentioning.


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I'm really not trying to debate you here. I value all your input so far.

But when I made reference to her being really young, I didn't mean young compared to me, I meant young in general.

As in there might be differences in meaning of the statement "I love you" for someone who is 20, 30, or 40. Emotional maturity and whatnot.

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I just meant it is not worth worrying about.

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I am at work and couldn't come back to this thread for a while, but [censored] really hit all the key points. Just get back to making out.

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I would really be worried that she's replacing the negative feelings that often come with new sobriety, with the OP.
Instead of her new reality, she falls in love. That's where you were headed all along. (You were in bed together, hello!)

Ultimately, you are only responsible for your own sobriety. She has to find her own. If you feel that you are being straight with her, do what you want.

You really should discuss this with your sponsor and some other old-timers.

my $.02

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That's where you were headed all along. (You were in bed together, hello!)



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slept together a few times (clothed) if that matters.

Good point, but being there through all of this, right now I believe that is just one of those things that happened. Neither of us really tried to make it happen.

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I would really be worried that she's replacing the negative feelings that often come with new sobriety, with the OP.


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Yes, or I would say she is replacing her addiction to alcohol with an addiction to you. Just be advised.

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Slight kissinng and hugging for two weeks is moving too fast? I don't understand the "slow down" thing either.

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lmao

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Slight kissinng and hugging for two weeks is moving too fast? I don't understand the "slow down" thing either.

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too fast emotionally, not physically.

its hard to describe.

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this sounds like something james bond would say.

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You usually have these great, stoic, semi-gimmicky replies to everything that make me feel you are really Sam Elliot.

You aren't, are you?

NT