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I will never buy a girl a drink unless she buys the first round (and we alternate after that).

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So why not just buy your own drinks?

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why do you dislike dimes so much?

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Drove from Philadelphia to Tampa with a trunkload of white powdery stuff. The sex was incredible but I hardly think it was worth a stint in the federal pen for interstate trafficking. [img]/images/graemlins/crazy.gif[/img]

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Debunking true rumors about [censored] your hot professor is a good thing?!

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The thread is about the dumbest thing you have done.

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I will never buy a girl a drink unless she buys the first round (and we alternate after that).

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So why not just buy your own drinks?

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I guess it just seems that we are both doing something nice for each other. I'm not being a dick by making her buy me drinks all night, and I'm also not letting her manipulate me into getting free drinks all night only to have her get up and leave when she has gotten all she wants. It sort of shows mutual interest I suppose.

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Please note: As long as you didn't physically harm someone, anything that you did that resulted in you getting ass, you should not be ashamed to post.

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Oh, well nevermind then.

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Please note: As long as you didn't physically harm someone, anything that you did that resulted in you getting ass, you should not be ashamed to post.

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Oh, well nevermind then.

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[censored] brilliant.

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You have great potential.

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The dumbest thing was :

*Be her bit on the side for 6 months and be happy (What a fool I was)*

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This doesn't sound that dumb.

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Well, when I got dropped like a hot potato...and had turned down other potential relationships in the hope that it would develop into something.....But alas, when the situation suited her, I was booted into touch...

I'll be honest, I was devastated...But looking back - It was dumb of me...

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Yeah, dumb.

Let's face it, men are dumb, women are evil, and the only chance guys have is the fact that, deep down, all women really despise one another way more than they despise men.

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Not to get all holier than thou, but how can quitting smoking be considered a "dumb" thing?

-McGee

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The dumbest thing you can ever do is tell them how you feel.

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married her

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Man. If I had a nickel for every time I heard this phrase or "told her I loved her", I'd be [censored] rich.

YOU ARE NOT FUNNY OR ORIGINAL.

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I found it funny, if not original.

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I will never buy a girl a drink unless she buys the first round (and we alternate after that).

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So why not just buy your own drinks?

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I guess it just seems that we are both doing something nice for each other. I'm not being a dick by making her buy me drinks all night, and I'm also not letting her manipulate me into getting free drinks all night only to have her get up and leave when she has gotten all she wants. It sort of shows mutual interest I suppose.

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Why start a potential relationship with a scorecard? Buy her some f'in drinks and don't keep track of who bought the last one. People who monitor spending like this have money issues in their relationships, I believe.

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agree to be in a long distancee relationship.

having a girlfriend be 1100 miles away, at college = not cool.

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The dumbest thing you can ever do is tell them how you feel.

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This is incorrect.

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Permanent body art [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

Well...she was my wife at the time.

Future personal ads might include: "SWM looking for SF named 'Diane'".

Dumb.

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This is incorrect.

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Says a girl. From a guy's standpoint, nothing good ever comes of it.

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Awww, come on, they're gonna rip out your heart and throw it to hell's hounds for a squeaky toy at some point, why not get it over quick.

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This is incorrect.

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Says a girl. From a guy's standpoint, nothing good ever comes of it.

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You mean from your standpoint.
It is not dumb, it is honest. If the girl is not responsive to what you have to say, move on. Nothing dumb about knowing where you stand.

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Nothing dumb about knowing where you stand.

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How do you know if they won't tell you?

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Nothing dumb about knowing where you stand.

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How do you know if they won't tell you?

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If they won't tell you, don't you now know where you stand?

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Nothing dumb about knowing where you stand.

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How do you know if they won't tell you?

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If they won't tell you, don't you now know where you stand?

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Sometimes. Not always.

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Future personal ads might include: "SWM looking for SF named 'Diane'".
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This is hilarious.

Swede

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Nothing dumb about knowing where you stand.

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How do you know if they won't tell you?

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If they don't tell you, it is usually a bad sign.

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If they don't tell you, it is usually a bad sign.

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So it's good for men to be honest and tell them how we feel, but we should never expect that from women? We're just supposed to guess? [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

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Hint: TAKE THE HINT! [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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If they don't tell you, it is usually a bad sign.

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So it's good for men to be honest and tell them how we feel, but we should never expect that from women? We're just supposed to guess? [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

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I think you are missing the point. Both should expect the other to be open and honest. More likely for women than men to actually push for this though. Cuz men usually understand that women in general would be shocked to know what men actually think.

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If they don't tell you, it is usually a bad sign.

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So it's good for men to be honest and tell them how we feel, but we should never expect that from women? We're just supposed to guess? [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

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no

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If I may interject... I've always had a theory that it's not so much that they won't honestly tell you what they want or how they feel, rather it's that they do not know and / or lie to themselves.

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I think you are missing the point. Both should expect the other to be open and honest. More likely for women than men to actually push for this though. Cuz men usually understand that women in general would be shocked to know what men actually think.

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Are you serious? Men are simple. I think women generally have us figured out pretty well. They're the irrational ones, the ones that make no sense.

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Are you serious? Men are simple. I think women generally have us figured out pretty well. They're the irrational ones, the ones that make no sense.

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Yeah, but they're cute too.

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Are you serious? Men are simple. I think women generally have us figured out pretty well. They're the irrational ones, the ones that make no sense.

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But men have hurtful thoughts, feelings and opinions. Sometimes very hurtful. At least I do. [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

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Are you serious? Men are simple. I think women generally have us figured out pretty well. They're the irrational ones, the ones that make no sense.

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Yeah, but they're cute too.

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This is very true. The cute ones are also generally the least rational. [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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I'm pretty sure both men & women can be hurtful. But what does that have to do with the question at ahnd?

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Yeah, they are irrational. I was talking to one the other day, and she just wasn't listening. I had to keep saying the same advice, over and over.

How many times should you have to say 'It rubs the lotion on its skin...'

sheesh!

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Wrote love letters and [censored]. Women always keep that stuff, and it can come back to haunt you.

"Do right, and fear no man. Don't write, and fear no woman."

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This started with you, I think, saying nothing good ever came from sharing your feelings. I am pointing out that an honest relationship is a good thing. It allows for open communication on all issues. Maybe I am doing a poor job of making a point. But I'm also pointing out that women are more concerned with having an honest/open relationship than men. Men would rather avoid any hurt and suppress their feelings because they would rather do this than deal with the conflict.

Maybe I'm the only one who isn't Phil Donahue when it comes to relationships though. [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

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said i love you....