Re: Girlfriend Trouble?
 

Muck it and play another hand.

Re: Girlfriend Trouble?
 

explain to her that 'friendship' doesn't function like this

if she doesn't get it, dump her

Re: Girlfriend Trouble?
 

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I do believe she would never cheat on me.

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No you don't.

Re: Girlfriend Trouble?
 

And besides if this does happen...who the hell wants to have all these letters and phone calls about how much i miss you stuff....while u still wonder whether she is getting boinked by all these euro dudes and slick willy.

Re: Girlfriend Trouble?
 

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I do believe she would never cheat on me.


No you don't.

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Let me rephrase. At this point in time, I 100% know she is not cheating on me, and does not plan on it.

However, I do think there could be a possibility, while she is in Europe for 3.5 months, that she will.


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explain to her that 'friendship' doesn't function like this

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What is a good line I can say to her about this?

Re: Girlfriend Trouble?
 

Most likely she is'nt going to cheat on you, and you very well may trust her 100% not to do so. But it doesnt matter, this is a [censored] thing to do to somebody if there not ok with it. Break up with her and find somebody else.

edit- You should break up with her even if she decides not to go. She is going to resent you for this if she does'nt get her way so best to move on to somebody who cares about your feelings more.

Re: Girlfriend Trouble?
 

People on OOT do offer a lot of good advice as most of us have had similar things happen or know or someone who has....take what you can from all of them.

Ask her what she plans on doing, so you can know. If she gets all upset...something isn't right about that. IF she is going... Take a break and remain friends while she is in europe. See other women...see how great she really is...or not is...

Re: Girlfriend Trouble?
 

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while u still wonder whether she is getting boinked by all these euro dudes and slick willy.

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for reals. i'll keep an eye out for her.

Re: Girlfriend Trouble?
 

She already rejected this guy once, she obviously doesn't have any romantic feelings for him. I don't see the problem. Besides, if she's going to cheat on you, she can do it just as easily right underneath your nose.

Re: Girlfriend Trouble?
 

Let me add a little tid bit more...

I told her that if she waited a couple months, during the summer, I would take her to Europe myself.

I have been there twice, and I know my way around. This other guy friend has not.

She commented that she'd love to go with me, moreso than with him, but she needs to get out of this place as soon as she can, for a bit. She's lived here her whole life.