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He won't say anything because he knows I will physically hurt him if he does.

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grow a sack lucas!

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Ive never meant to say that all asian women are the same. If I was unwise with my verbage, then sorry. Obviously, a girl raised in China is going to be quite different than one raised in SoCal.

Indy

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EDIT: ignore this, i wrote it before i finished reading the rest of the thread...

I think you need at least one more similar encounter if it ever happens.

From what you've said, i think you might've blown your chance, not to sleep with her because she does sound a little naive.

if she was so innocent, wouldnt she be adverse to suggesting you go to your bedroom alone with and get all fidgety once your roommate leaves?

i think she mightve wanted to hook up with you in the least, and perhaps the most too.

Wacki, worst case scenario is you make a move next time this happens, but not right away either, let her squirm for a bit.

As for sweeping generalizations of asian women being demure etc, i think its a ridiculous statement.

i know a bunch of asian girls who do not fit that stereotype.

But back to the OP: You quite possibly missed yoru chance. She couldve been feeling frisky that night, and may not anymore. She might not have wanted to tip you off too much by jumping on your johnson. She was hoping for some reciprocation and got nothing... which means next time she may not be as foward. You can always make the suggestion next time to study in your room, let your rommie in on it and ask him to politely go study elsewhere (i.e. set up the situation).

if she balks, you can play innocent and you know where she stands. if she goes along, i think you have a green light to at least kiss her.

but like someone else asked, the real question really is, do you want to?

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As a foreign student, I have definitely made statements that have been misunderstood before.

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Whoah! Sounds like he better! Come on, Lucas. Out with it!

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i think it would be best that i don't, but i'll see what i can do.

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As a foreign student, I have definitely made statements that have been misunderstood before.

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Whoah! Sounds like he better! Come on, Lucas. Out with it!

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i think it would be best that i don't, but i'll see what i can do.

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is she cute?

Why don\'t you like the girl, wacki?
 

There's gotta be a reason other than innocence. And besides, its not hard to turn the innocent naughty

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I'm not sure how to explain this. She wants to be romantically involved. She even mentioned moving cross country with me. I never said there wasn't a chance of "any relationship". I just said there wasn't a chance of a long term relationship. That drove her nuts.

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Of course that drove her nuts, you are leaving the possibility of a relationship on the table. At this point you're just being cruel to her- toying with her emotions.

Come on man, either you're interested or you're not. There's no way you should have had a 4-hour conversation trying to convince her you're not interested if you were being direct.