Going for the threesome, long run -EV?

squeek12 · #1 06-23-2005, 06:04 PM

I'm recently married, but my wife and I are still very young(23 and 22 respectively) and enjoy our share of drunken debauchery. I've noticed that when she gets smashed she gravitates toward some of our girl friends and gets a little frisky.

I know that at least one of our friends would most likely be up for it if the circumstances were right. The problem is that when my wife sobers up she denies attraction to women and gets a little defensive. She is also a little more jealous than the average wife/girlfriend.

Would going for the trifecta be a long run mistake. I think it would, but it would be interesting to hear advice/stories from anyone who has been in this predicament before.

Patrick del Poker Grande · #2 06-23-2005, 06:05 PM

I think the general consensus is that you're in trouble the moment you both think a three-some is a good idea.

Yeti · #3 06-23-2005, 06:05 PM

I love the use of trifecta. nh.

DemonDeac · #4 06-23-2005, 06:05 PM

ooooo a double pooper situation

drunken actions=sober thoughts, no matter what wifey says
are u lookin for like a consisten monage here or just for one drunken night?

Macdaddy Warsaw · #5 06-23-2005, 06:07 PM

Given the jealousy issues, it's a big no. She will likely never get over it.

I like to think it's possible that a married couple could pull a threesome and not have it f' everything all to hell. But I think it's a 10% shot.

asofel · #6 06-23-2005, 06:07 PM

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ooooo a double pooper situation

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lmao.

squeek12 · #7 06-23-2005, 06:08 PM

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ooooo a double pooper situation

drunken actions=sober thoughts, no matter what wifey says
are u lookin for like a consisten monage here or just for one drunken night?

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One drunken night. I can't imagine what that one hungover morning would be like though. My strategy is to let it come to me. If my wife initiates the action, I wouldn't resist. But I think it would be a mistake to go for it myself.

djoyce003 · #8 06-23-2005, 06:11 PM

it will most likely end up costing you your marriage.

asofel · #9 06-23-2005, 06:12 PM

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it will most likely end up costing you your marriage.

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yep. she's defensive about it when sober and denies it PLUS the fact that she's kinda jealous!? steer clear, not worth it.

[censored] · #10 06-23-2005, 06:14 PM

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it will most likely end up costing you your marriage.

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mirrors my thoughts. depends how valuable your marriage is to you because I dount it would survive long after this.