Top Set on the Flop When its the Nuts

[Young Gun]

The play of the top set on the flop has plagued me the past few sessions. I've dumped $30 at 10-25 on stars. relatively small but still concerning. now my question is when you flop the top set is it correct to ram and jam and get in as much as possible or wait for the board to possibly pair where you know youy have a likely winner to jam it.

P.S. I realize the sistuation maybe different depending how many outs I beleive my opponents may have but what play is correct if say the flop is 2 of one suit and you put your opponenet on 4 to a flush.