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05-27-2005, 11:00 PM
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Re: OMFG!!! How would you handle this??(Mild gay content)
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] But I do not want kids (at least now), and not for the reasons that you may think. I live in Bible Belt and I refuse to have my child teased by other kids because they have 2 daddies. [/ QUOTE ] I think you really need to chill out with this line of thought. You're not married to David. [/ QUOTE ] You Chill Jack, that was an "In General" statement. Good Lord, I know I am 30 but I am far from settling down. Big Steve [img]/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img] [/ QUOTE ] I think you'll forgive me for making that jump of logic, seeing as this was posted in a thread about your boyfriend receiving the shock news that he is going to become a father. I apologize if I've misunderstood. 
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#23
05-27-2005, 11:08 PM
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Re: OMFG!!! How would you handle this??(Mild gay content)
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[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] But I do not want kids (at least now), and not for the reasons that you may think. I live in Bible Belt and I refuse to have my child teased by other kids because they have 2 daddies. [/ QUOTE ] I think you really need to chill out with this line of thought. You're not married to David. [/ QUOTE ] You Chill Jack, that was an "In General" statement. Good Lord, I know I am 30 but I am far from settling down. Big Steve [img]/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img] [/ QUOTE ] I think you'll forgive me for making that jump of logic, seeing as this was posted in a thread about your boyfriend receiving the shock news that he is going to become a father. I apologize if I've misunderstood. [/ QUOTE ] Not a Problem! Big Steve [img]/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]
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#24
05-28-2005, 01:30 AM
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Re: OMFG!!! How would you handle this??(Mild gay content)
Just relax. Be the guy's friend. Take things really slowly.
And you might want to reconsider posting private personal things like this on a poker forum where A1 might one day see. Or his "girlfriend" might read. Or his mom. Or the kid...
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#25
05-28-2005, 01:51 AM
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Re: OMFG!!! How would you handle this??(Mild gay content)
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2=2 [img]/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img] Holy [censored] I am in the wrong forum! Thank you so much!!! [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] Big Steve [img]/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img] [/ QUOTE ] Haha that was excellent. Questions: does this girl know that David is gay? How does she feel about it? How involved does she want him to be with her child? I just imagine her freaking out and never letting David see the child (or at least not while you are around, if you still are) because he is gay. As far as advice goes, I think you need to wait and see how this affects David. I mean, initial reactions aside, this may completely change him, or it may not - hard to know if you should date him until you see that.
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#26
05-28-2005, 02:28 AM
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Re: OMFG!!! How would you handle this??(Mild gay content)
"does this girl know that David is gay?"
Does David even know if David is gay? See why this is a problem? (and yes I forgot to shift the '=' key. Dear gods, like he doesn't know where the [censored] he is.
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#27
05-28-2005, 02:44 AM
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Re: OMFG!!! How would you handle this??(Mild gay content)
Steve,
Friends are worth a great deal and are worth forgiving. You know this. Be there for him and be grateful you are not him. Matt
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#28
05-28-2005, 03:05 AM
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Re: OMFG!!! How would you handle this??(Mild gay content)
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[ QUOTE ] 2=2 [img]/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img] Holy [censored] I am in the wrong forum! Thank you so much!!! [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] Big Steve [img]/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img] [/ QUOTE ] Haha that was excellent. Questions: does this girl know that David is gay? How does she feel about it? How involved does she want him to be with her child? I just imagine her freaking out and never letting David see the child (or at least not while you are around, if you still are) because he is gay. As far as advice goes, I think you need to wait and see how this affects David. I mean, initial reactions aside, this may completely change him, or it may not - hard to know if you should date him until you see that. [/ QUOTE ] These are great questions!!! I need to make a list and ask him these? You are right I would hate to see him get married because it is the right Christian thing to do. But I also don't want him to be out of the childs life if he decided to say gay. [img]/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img] Big Steve [img]/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]
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#29
05-28-2005, 03:08 AM
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Re: OMFG!!! How would you handle this??(Mild gay content)
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Steve, Friends are worth a great deal and are worth forgiving. You know this. Be there for him and be grateful you are not him. Matt [/ QUOTE ] I totally agree, I can not imagine what must be going through his mind now. Big Steve [img]/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]
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