ING+Neteller: Can deposit to ING, but can't withdraw to fund Neteller?

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i have an ING acct. I want to link Neteller to it.

But I've had a problem recently with ING. I opened another bank acct. I gave that bank ING's routing & acct #s, and told it to withdraw from my ING acct.

ING rejected the request. They said they have to be the ones that initiate $ flowing out of ING. this is for security purposes. i dont think this is right???

So to those that have ING linked to Neteller, do you have problems using Neteller to initiate a withdraw from ING?