Don't declaw the kitten. You can train them to use a scratching post. The ones made out of sisal (rope or fabric) are the best. Here is a good site :
http://www.purrfectpost.com/html/whycatsscratch.html
You could also learn how to trim their nails. They will resist at first but most kittens will accept it is you start early and pet them a lot when you finish.