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Girls just call guys stalkers to flatter themselves.

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this sums it up pretty well. if a girl actually had a stalker I don't think they'd call them a stalker, because the term's too watered down. so essentially if a girl is calling you a stalker you're in the clear, she's just playing hard-to-get.

on a separate note, twice last week I ran into a girl I had dated and gotten rejected by, and both times I later checked her away message and it said she'd be where I ran into her. so I clearly appear to be stalking her. meh!