[vexvelour]

Listen dude. The same drama that is happening with the fiance is happening at the table. You have become self-defeating.

I really do feel bad that everyone is jumping down your throat about wording ("spend money on poker") but you must see that this is only proof from inside you that you have become self-defeating.

Take a vacation, if you can. Take the girl with you, have some fun away from your everyday reality. If things are really bad between the two of you, go on your own. It'll help you put everything into perspective, and it sounds like you have a lot to perspectifize.

When you decide to play poker again, make sure you're sitting there to win, and get some noise cancelling headphones so you can't hear the nagging.

I hope this helps.