[Macdaddy Warsaw]

I like to think I'm metrosexual, but I'm probably not even close to it. I just give a crap about what I look like.

That said, I would check out a store like Urban Outfitters. I think Ralph Lauren/Polo also makes some not so gay stuff. I think staying away from Italian designers and lines like Guess? would be the way to go. I bought some Guess button downs and I think they're super metro, but I like it that way.

Anyway, just stay away from frilly/pink [censored] and I think you'll be ok in not being too metro.

EDIT: The more I think about it, Urban Outfitters and the like would be perfect for what you want. Yeah. I just went there for the first time this past weekend and I think it's what you're looking for.