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quid pro quo.

I would recommend being completely honest with boy about your feelings on the situation, whatever they may be. You are in no way responsible here, so dont let the good friend aspect of your relationship with boy subvert the signficant other part.

If you feel like you shouldnt be going out with boy any more, well, tell him you want to put things on hold to reduce the emotional pressure he is facing, then dump the bi curious bastard later. However, that seems pretty irrational since he didnt cheat on you, and who really cares if he wanted to chase some vag for awhile?

Also, i personally would find out what his thoughts are on the whole having children thing, and hers, and perhaps encourage them to look for options outside of keeping the child, either abortion or adoption. It doesnt really sound like either of these kids are ready to be parents, and they are probably not emotionally stable enough to be rational. Be there, be supportive, but also be ready to help boy figure out what is best for *his* future, not this ill-concieved gay-spawn. [img]/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]

ok, the quid quo pro part.

Most heterosexuals who upon breaking up with someone and finding out that later became gay have two responses, almost uniformly divided along lines of sex. Males are almost always ok with it, because the ex is now cleaning carpet, which is hot. Chicks are usually not ok because it means that she hurt the boy somehow. Or whatever.

Does this same feeling occur in homosexual relationships? Whats that like?

peace

john nickle