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FeliciaLee
11-17-2003, 05:21 PM
Saturday, November 15, 2003

Larry looked unhappy on Friday. He was across the table from me at the 4/8 game. Larry always has this look of gruffness, but is really a great guy. He didn't seem to be putting on an act, and Gene even said something about it. Gene, another local, was sitting to my left and said Larry hadn't smiled all day. We can usually get Larry to break his cranky veneer by joking with him. Not on Friday. I told Gene I could make Larry smile. I went over and kissed his bald head, asking why he was acting like a grumpy old goat. He still didn't smile and said something had happened earlier that he wasn't happy about. I don't know what that something was, but I hate to see my poker friends unhappy.

On Saturday, Larry looked a little better, but still wasn't in good spirits. I told him that if there was anything I could do for him, if he wanted to talk, etc, I was always there for him.

I like almost everyone in the Belle poker room. The senior men I call "old goats." The younger guys are "little monkeys." I have no idea how I started this, but I've been doing it for years. Glenn has always been my "little monkey." Sounds stupid and childish, but whatever. I guess I never grew up!

We decided not to join the 10/20 game until later in the afternoon. It just seems too tight and solid early in the day. I had to take the ten seat, but at least I was able to act directly after Troy.

Troy told me about his play last Saturday, and how disappointed he was in himself. I told him that although he had been stuck, at least he hadn't tilted or altered his game, significantly, for the worse. He said after Saturday's nightmare, he'd driven to Palm Springs and played all week, working on his game, while taking the rich, LA retiree's money. That just goes to show you that old dogs CAN learn new tricks. I was very proud of Troy, and my initial view of him, from back in August, stands.

I was extremely aggressive and dominant in the ten seat. I raised with the right cards, at the right time. I felt in control. I started winning. Then, something happened. I was able to move to the three seat, and things were never the same. I don't believe in superstition, or that one seat will receive better cards, etc. I don't think that hands tend to stand up better in the five seat versus the nine seat, blah, blah. Cards are cards. We all get our share. But I couldn't get anything going on in the three seat. Not all night. I played until 2:00am, and I couldn't win. Nothing stood up.

I had pocket jacks about 9:00pm. I raised. Only two callers behind me. The flop was small. The turn was a queen, the river, blank. I lost when a fish held onto QJo until the turn to bust my jacks. C'est la vie, it happens, and thank God for fish. Unfortunately, this was happening all night. ALL night.

From 9:00pm, when I held the jacks, until after 1:00am, I was never dealt a pair. Not once. Not even deuces. That is probably 160 hands, or more, at our table, since we tend to move pretty quickly. A new record for me.

During that four hour time frame, I also never received AK, off or suited. I was dealt AQ twice, but no AJ or KQ, etc.

I won one pot in 3.5 hours. I had QJ and the flop came with a KJ. I had second pair and a straight draw. The river brought a third jack. Very small pot, as we were head's up.

I didn't win one drawing, I barely won a pot in ten hours. Blah! Most of it was just a horrible run of cards, but I do notice that there are holes again. I am playing more passively as I lose. I am not playing "scared," necessarily, as the money doesn't mean anything, but I am holding back a bit, not raising with hands I would normally raise with (AQs in late position with little to no limpers. AQo in early position to drive out those behind me, etc.). I am also folding on the flop easier if I don't get a solid hit. Even if I have two overcards! Blah! Back to Theory of Poker for the week.

I dropped close to $900 at the 10/20 table. Ick.

In another development, I saw a few things in the poker room that disturbed me on Saturday.

On a poker forum I participate in, there was a serious discussion about floormen "breaking up" shorthanded tables. Breaking them up whether players wanted to draw for seats or not. Breaking them up on a whim, whatever. Forcing shorthanded players to enter full games, no choice in the matter. I have seen this before at the Belle, but usually it is done with a bit of tact.

On Saturday night, the floorman came over to a table and stated, "After this hand, we are going to move you all to full tables. Five of you can go over there, and three of you can sit over there." No choice, no poll. Just move, and do it now.

In another incident, I was partially to blame.

I wrote about having pocket jacks about 9:00pm. One of the players who called my raise won the hand with QJo. By the time we got to the river, he didn't have much money left. He had three red chips to call my $20 bet. I looked down at his stack and said to the dealer, "He only has three red out there," since she hadn't called any side-pot or announced that he was all-in. She looked at his place and said, "He doesn't have any money left," or something to that affect. I said "okay," and exposed my hand. Like I said, he won with the QJo, and was pushed the pot. But I was not pushed the "side pot," which would have been $10, because there was another man in the pot who had called the $20, then mucked when I opened my hand.

The dealer was pushed out and I pulled her aside to ask her why she didn't push me the $10. She said there WAS no $10. I asked her how that was possible and she said that the man had called my entire $20. I told her that she had stated he was all-in, after I'd inquired, and she said that she had never said that, that he had the entire $20. Sorry folks, but I know three chips when I see them, and I know that three chips are NOT four chips, which is why I verified with her, in the first place, that he had three chips out in front of him. I verified with her BEFORE we opened our hands.

My mistake was not calling the floor immediately and getting a decision. I tried to remedy that mistake by getting up after the hand ended, but by that time, I was basically called a liar. I tried to talk to the floorman about this. I told him that he could just ask the gentleman if he'd gone all in for three chips or four. The gentleman seemed like a nice guy, I don't think he'd lie. I wasn't even asking for the money back, I just wanted them to know that the dealer had made a mistake, then gone to the extreme of saying "I" was mistaken, and that she had never said what she'd said. I hate being called a liar. In fact, I will not tolerate it.

So I asked them to run the tapes. Then, to my horror, I was told that they WEREN'T taping our table. The floorman said they don't tape all of the poker tables, that it is just random, etc. The ONE big game in our cardroom is NOT being taped???? The only 10/20 game in Laughlin???? Now he was either lying, to placate me (right), or this is true? Funny that they taped a little $2-5 hold'em game the other day, and played back the tapes to see Ward getting hit, but they aren't taping a PLANNED $10/20 game that goes on every Saturday???? Like I said, maybe he was lying to placate me.

Isn't it ironic that a casino will do everything necessary to prove that THEY are right, when there is a dispute, i.e., playing a tape, getting witnesses to make statements, etc. Yet when I ask them to prove ME right, and a dealer wrong, suddenly there IS no tape, they CANNOT ask witnesses, nor can they just confirm the situation with the all-in player. Not even a simple, "Sir, can you tell us if you were all-in for your last three red chips?" No. The floorman refused to ask the man, just out of courtesy to me. I told him I did NOT want the $10, I would not ask the man for the money back, but would just like to be proven correct, so that he could see that the dealer had made a mistake, then tried to call me a liar, on top of it.

Sometimes poker is harsh. Dealers will try their best to not make mistakes, but they happen. It is no big deal. I tried to be nice and pull her aside privately. She basically went off on me. She seems like a nice lady in every other respect, but if she thinks for one minute she may have made a mistake, it is much better for her to blame it on the player. That is human nature, I suppose. I have never had that problem, thank God. I am very, very self confident and have high self-esteem. If I am caught making a mistake, I have no trouble admitting it. Too bad not everyone has such a good life.

Later in the 10/20 session, a tourist sat down. He seemed a little drunk, but friendly. Things quickly changed. He got into fight after fight with other players.

One player, who was on his left, is deaf. He has one of those things attached to his skull, but he is 100% deaf. I can't remember how those nerve things work, but I believe it helps a deaf person "hear" certain things by vibration, or something like that. Anyway, the drunk player started going off on the deaf guy, not realizing he was deaf. The dealer did nothing. The floorman was called over several times by players, but did nothing, save issuing empty threats. The drunk kept boasting that he had been kicked out of the Belle several times, and didn't care, but they obviously weren't going to kick him out this time. And he was right. They didn't.

Anyway, he was ranting and raving over the deaf guy drawing out on him. He was promising revenge, he was going to "get" the deaf guy, anytime he was in a hand with him. The deaf guy missed all of this. I finally said to the drunk, "Dude, what is your name?" He answered. I said, "Johnny, listen to me. That guy is deaf. You are being mean and he doesn't even understand one word of what you are saying, anyway. Why don't you tone it down?" He jerked with realization, but then "defended" his meanness with a whole bunch of BS. Don't they always? They always have some reason why they are allowed to be mean, lol.

In the end, he recruited two of his drunk friends to come over and play. They were seated in the seven, eight and nine, the deaf guy having moved to the one seat, to escape the drunk and his blather. In his defense, the deaf guy had tried to explain to the drunk that he was deaf. He tried to read his lips, but couldn't understand why the drunk was so mad at him. He kept saying he didn't understand what he'd done wrong. What a nightmare.

So the seven through nine seats were taken by the drunk and his friends, who were "sharing" their cards. I got up. Obviously, the floorman wasn't going to do anything about this horrible situation, as you have seen in the actions of the floormen all night at the Belle.

I sat next to Glenn, in the 4/8 game, which was starting to break up. I kept it alive for about 30 minutes, but my horrible sucking out continued. I raised with pocket queens. The big blind called with K5o. He flopped a full house, lol. Such had been my luck all evening.

Glenn and I finally just packed up and left. Horrible day, horrible floormen, horrible drunks, horrible cards.

Although all of my poker strengths are rendered null and void online, I completely understand why some people give up live play altogether and play only online poker, even when they are privy to such poker cities as L.A, Vegas and Atlantic City.

Poker can be cruel. We have to have virtual alligator skin to withstand some of the atrocities we experience every day in the poker room. Thank God I don't have thin skin.

Al_Capone_Junior
11-17-2003, 05:51 PM
First off the floorman is full of [censored]. (That's the stinky stuff that comes out of a bull's butt). They were taping the game, they always are.

Second, you need alligator BLOOD to win at poker. You need alligator SKIN to deal with all the idiots who make your blood pressure soar, leaving you wishing for a big stick to bang them over their tiny little heads with.

al

Greg (FossilMan)
11-17-2003, 06:20 PM
Here's my remedies for some of the screw-ups you experienced that night.

I'm guessing dealers keep their own tips at the Belle? If so, next 10 times you win a pot while that lady is dealing, tell her that's #1, #2, etc. out of the 10 times you won't tip her because she failed to give you the sidepot. When you get to #11, tell her that's #1 of the 10 times you won't tip her because she called you a liar. If she gives you any grief during this process, when you get to #21, tell her that's #1 of 10 because she did whatever it was to give you grief. Don't be hateful or use a rude tone of voice, but as neutral a tone as possible. If she wants, talk to her on the side somewhere, and see if she apologizes or any such, and if so, stop the punishment.

As for the players sharing cards, I would bring the game to a halt everytime I was still in the hand and they shared cards. I would call over the floor, and demand that he enforce the "show one-show all" rule. If he refused, I would ask him if his cardroom had that rule on the books. When he says "yes, but ...", don't even let him finish his explanation. Tell him he will either enforce that rule right now, or you will go to the Nevada Gaming Commission and lodge a complaint. BTW, I wouldn't do all this immediately. The first time the players did this I would say something polite to them and/or the dealer, explaining that they're not allowed to do this, and would they please stop. If they didn't stop, I would then go away from the table to ask the floor to do something about it. Only after he ignored my reasonable request would I take the above drastic measures.

Of course, if they're playing like morons, and doing all this is just going to get them to quit the game, I'd probably just ignore it. Or, in a key spot, where I really wanted to see somebody's hand, I'd then ask for the "show one-show all" rule to be enforced. That is, I'd let them get away with it all those times it did little to hurt me, but ask to see their cards at the key times only.

Also, if the floorman is going to allow a bunch of crap to go on without doing anything about it all the time, I would talk to the other regulars in the game and see if they don't all want to move it to another poker room. If you can get the 20 or so most regular players to agree to go across the street, the game will go over there instead from that point forward.

Later, Greg Raymer (FossilMan)

FeliciaLee
11-17-2003, 06:42 PM
Thanks for the great advice, Greg!

Yes, dealers keep their own tips in Laughlin. This will really hurt her, as she is a dealer who failed at going pro. I don't know if I really want to hurt her that much. Maybe I will keep a little running tab, and put a mark on it for every pot I win when she is dealing. That way, I won't have to say a word, to embarrass her, but the point will be clearly shown.

I know this is going to sound preposterous, but when I said the three drunk players were "sharing" their hands, I meant that they were exposing them to each other while they were IN the hand. Not after one or two had folded. That is when I got up. I complained, as did a couple of other players, but nothing was done.

Unfortunately, the Belle is the only cardroom willing to spread 10/20. And they are only willing to do that on Saturday nights, when they get the tourist crowd.

I would definitely hesitate to move the game to the Riverside, for reasons you know about, if you've read my other Riverside posts. I can't imagine the abuse that would go on if we moved the game there! /images/graemlins/shocked.gif

oddjob
11-17-2003, 08:10 PM
it's pretty sad that the other player's won't back you up, or the guy who got the extra money wouldn't fess up. human decency goes out the door when it's an extra $10.

there were two occasions this sat. where i spoke up for the good of the rules, and no one else said a thing

one was an angleshooter, and dealer missed that it was checked around, he tried to bet. i told him it wasn't allowed and that he checked, and he told me to calm down. it was obvious he checked, and it was obvious he was taking a shot. no one else said anything although there were 3 other players in the pot that this affected. although my buddy was sitting next to me but he wasn't paying attention.

the other one was a player who was obviously trying to look at the elderly man's cards sitting next to him. the dealer didn't even say anything and she was looking the whole time.

i love playing cards and i love playing live, but you really can see people's true colors shine when you're at the table.

in your case, i would have made a stink before she pushed the entire pot, as she's supposed to give you the side pot first. and if she denied it, i would make her count the money in it. make her work to prove you a liar.

FeliciaLee
11-18-2003, 03:39 AM
Yes, that really is sad /images/graemlins/frown.gif

In his defense, the all-in guy was a total fish, and probably didn't even know what a side pot was, or that he wasn't entitled to win what he couldn't cover. He seemed confused when this erupted, and almost looked like he thought I was accusing "him" of doing something wrong. I really felt sorry for him, being caught in the crossfire.

Your examples exemplify so many players in the cardroom. It really is sad. I will always point out any error, even if the error is to my advantage. For instance, today, the dealer tried to give me the button twice. No one objected. *I* objected. It was during a tournament, and this would have been a huge advantage for me, at a shorthanded table, but I would not allow it.

I never allow anyone to pay the big blind twice, etc. I always try to defend the underdog who is being taken advantage of, even if it would have worked out in my favor.

It is too bad that not everyone has the morals that you and I possess.

Legend27
11-18-2003, 08:13 AM
Good post. I enjoy reading your posts. Sorry you had a bad run of cards.

Greg (FossilMan)
11-18-2003, 10:59 AM
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I know this is going to sound preposterous, but when I said the three drunk players were "sharing" their hands, I meant that they were exposing them to each other while they were IN the hand. Not after one or two had folded. That is when I got up. I complained, as did a couple of other players, but nothing was done.

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This is where you absolutely must insist on them applying the "show one-show all" rule. DO NOT let the hand proceed any further until the rule is enforced. If they refuse to apply the rule, politely inform them that you will be lodging a complaint with the Gaming Commission. I presume that this rule is on their books, as it's in every book I've ever heard of. And they must enforce their own written rules in any casino game or get in trouble.

If you tell him this and he still won't enforce the rule, follow through. If all else fails, move to LV so you can play 10-20 at the Mirage, which I believe is a real poker room, unlike what the Belle is apparently trying to run.

Later, Greg Raymer (FossilMan)

Tommy Angelo
11-18-2003, 11:41 AM
Hi Felicia,

Your honest and fluid writing style allowed me to share your pain! Ouch!

I think I might be able to really help you out here in the future if what you want is to never have any bad-vibe stuff happen any more at the poker room with you involved in it.

This is hard for me to sum up because it took me so, so long to figure it out. If only someone had told me.


Be the house. Be on the same side as the house.

The floorman breaks up a short game and shuffles you all off to other tables. He has his reasons. And they are good ones. And what he really wants, more than anything else, is, when he asks the players to move, that no one complains.

All floorman do is hear complaints. And that's fine. That's part of the job. But if you want to make every poker room you ever go into a better place, just because you are in it, then be the house, and never, and I mean never, ever, put a dealer on the spot. Treat the dealer better than even his own floormen treat him. If the dealer is spectacularly incompetent and screwing everything up and has a bad attitude besides, THIS IS WHEN YOU RISE TO THE OCCASION AND BE KINDER STILL!

And most the time, the greatest kindness, the best thing for the game, is, for the most knowing person, the one most entitled to speak up, to set an example, of conflict avoidance. And when you do join in, to help, to really help, to help the dealer, the help the floorman,
you will get want you want, with goodwill on top.



Tommy

Festus22
11-18-2003, 12:11 PM
I see you've made the transition from the self-centric universe to other-centric.

Congratulations! (And I truly mean that)

FeliciaLee
11-18-2003, 02:37 PM
Tommy, your posts are always fantastic. I don't know how you did this, but I am happy for you.

I don't know if I have that much patience in the world! I would probably need electric shock treatments to be as kind as you describe. I'd like to say I am joking, but, unfortunately, I am not. I have a temper, and I have never claimed to be "nice." How you can do this is beyond me.

So when you see cheating, and the dealer refuses to say anything, then the floorman issues a meaningless warning, you say to yourself, "That's okay, if the house feels that cheaters are welcome in the game, so do I, because I am the house." Then you proceed to try to outplay them?

I'm not being sarcastic, I'm asking honestly. Is this what is running through your mind at the time?

This has been my first real conflict at the Belle. I have been playing there, full-time, since August. The daytime shift, when the poker room manager is there, seems to be run like clockwork, with few, to no problems.

Thanks so much for your response.

FeliciaLee
11-18-2003, 02:53 PM
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This is where you absolutely must insist on them applying the "show one-show all" rule. DO NOT let the hand proceed any further until the rule is enforced. If they refuse to apply the rule, politely inform them that you will be lodging a complaint with the Gaming Commission. I presume that this rule is on their books, as it's in every book I've ever heard of. And they must enforce their own written rules in any casino game or get in trouble.

If you tell him this and he still won't enforce the rule, follow through. If all else fails, move to LV so you can play 10-20 at the Mirage, which I believe is a real poker room, unlike what the Belle is apparently trying to run.

Later, Greg Raymer (FossilMan)

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Thanks, Greg. I think that I was so in shock by the whole string of events that occured on Saturday that I was too numb to do much by 2:00am.

Funny that you mention the Mirage. I guess every poker room has it's problems. The last time I played at the Mirage, I was sitting next to a grifter. He stole chips off of an elderly lady on his right. Both myself and a young, 20-something guy saw him. The 20-something guy busted him before I could say anything. The dealer refused to do anything. Suddenly, the grifter started yelling at the kid, telling him to "Mind his own business, or else..."

I would not let him continue, and told him that I'd also seem him stealing. He said, "Shut up and mind your own business." The dealer still refused to do anything. We called the floor. Suddenly, the grifter changed his whole story and said his stealing was an accident.

The floorman rolled his eyes and told the grifter to pay the lady back. That's it. Both the kid and I tried to tell the floorman about his comments, but the grifter kept insisting it was all an accident, and the elderly woman said that if he'd accidentally stolen her money, it was okay with her (???).

After the floorman left, the grifter sneered at us, "See, I can do whatever I want here. I told you to just mind your own business!"

I cashed out and told the poker room manager. She went over to talk to the grifter and the floorman. She agreed that it was all just a big accident, and that the young man and I should have simply stayed out of it.

I've never played at the Mirage since.

On other occasions, I've run into people who have had similar incidents at the Mirage. One told me that the table caught a player cheating in a tourney, and when the plot was exposed, this same manager said she "Didn't want to cause anymore trouble than had already been caused," and let it go.

A dealer told me that a player hit her at the Mirage, and the same cardroom manager refused to do anything about it.

Abuse in cardrooms happens a lot out here, Greg. Cardrooms tolerate it, so there is no deterrent for the abuse to stop. It is not like Atlantic City or Foxwoods. Things seem to be changing slowly, but I still hear about horrid abuse every day.

Tommy Angelo
11-18-2003, 06:15 PM
Felicia,

Talking about the behaviors and ethics at a poker table is one of my favorite topics, but you asked me a question that is outside my scope:

"So when you see cheating ..."

Locally, in the seven years I've been here, I can't recall ever seeing cheating in the limit games, and I've seen only a few instances of cheating in the no-limit games. But then, I don't look for it. I leave that to the qualified paranoids. My faith in the self-policing nature of a well-run poker game allows me to save up all my worrying for stuff like paying rent.

Sound to me like the game you were in was not very well run. I made my living in games just like that one, probably much worse, for six years, all home games, crazy, lawless games. I learned a lot about how to watch my back. But that was hurting my neck, so I moved to where I live now because the people in and around the poker games get along, and the games are well run. The incidents you described would never happen under the current management at LC's and AJ's.

But let's say I was passing through the Belle, and I got in that game, and all that stuff was going on. As a stranger in town, I would never dream of complaining. I'd either find a way to enjoy myself, or quit.

But let's say I was forced to (try to) make a living by playing poker at the Belle and nowhere else. And on my first night, all that stuff went down. No problem. Now it would be even more important, critically and financially important, that I not add to the fuss. That's because my goal would be to build and nurture good relationships with every employee in the joint, right down to the janitor. And the most important of all those relationships would be with the top management and the floor staff. And eventually, when I had them all trained :-), they would know that if I bother to speak up about something, it's important. And instead of being just some other guy blowing hot air, I'd (hopefully) be someone whose ideas are given sincere consideration.



Tommy

mike l.
11-19-2003, 01:13 AM
this was all very helpful tommy thanks.

the devil in me though just couldnt stop imagining walking into commerce top section some day and, just by chance seeing tommy in the distance rising up out of his seat, tearing his im running good cap off, steam shooting out of his ears, half a rack of brown chips spilling everywhere and another more beastly form rising up as well, cuss words spewing forth everywhere, floormen charging over to the scene, chairs falling back into the aisles and i suddenly realise: it's tommy and iris and their fists are raised!

TruePoker CEO
11-19-2003, 06:31 PM
I'll be there for a few days ... looks like the Belle is out given this thread... Where should I look for a game,..... if anywhere ?

FeliciaLee
11-19-2003, 06:43 PM
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I'll be there for a few days ... looks like the Belle is out given this thread... Where should I look for a game,..... if anywhere ?

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David, you should most definitely play at the Belle.

I hated to make that post, maybe giving everyone the wrong impression about the Belle. The poker room manager, James, told me that he has not been in the casino much at night lately, but "that is about to change." I think he knows there are some holes that need to be fixed in the room.

Please read my review of the four poker rooms in Laughlin (Riding the River).

The Riverside is kind of like playing at the Horseshoe. There are criminals and thugs. They will allow a player to hit a dealer without punishment (other from being told to leave the poker room until he sobers up, lol). They allow players to call dealers names (last week: "Sir, please don't call the dealer an [censored]."). When I was playing a small, no-limit game, one player threatened to stab another with a knife he was carrying. Management reply, "Come on guys, let's just settle down and play a nice game of poker."

The games at the Riverside can be ULTRA juicy, but there are huge problems, as you can see. One player told me on Monday that he played in a game, then saw three players cashing out and dividing up their "shares" right out in the open, at the cage. Obviously it does not matter that they are cheating (colluding), and they are even so bold to divvy up the profit when they cash out!

If you go to the Riverside, don't go alone.

Unfortunately, the River Palms and the Flamingo Hilton just don't have any action /images/graemlins/frown.gif

The Colorado Belle has it all. There have been some unfortunate incidents, late at night, on the weekend, lately, but I have a feeling that is all about to change. There was just a temporary lapse in good management lately.

When are you coming to town? Can I show you around? Take you to the "good" restaurants?