diebitter
11-13-2005, 06:24 AM
Prompted by another thread, I think I'd like to hear any tricks/tips/techniques use in life, love, and work
Silence is what I wanna promote. It's use is still not common, and when used right, very powerful.
examples:
In a meeting, if someone has a job to do, and the meeting is asked 'who wants to take this on?' --- only a short space of time will elapse before someone offers. YOU REMAIN SILENT == less work
Talk to a woman, make a compliment or something suggestive comes up, you may get the urge to quip or joke or move the conversation on so it doesn't seem significant, even though she seems to dig it. Nope! Silence + look into her eyes: SILENCE == connection + meaning
There's lots more examples, but you get the idea.
Sometimes, if you get the urge, just STFU and maybe the silence will work for you.
Any other tips out there?
Silence is what I wanna promote. It's use is still not common, and when used right, very powerful.
examples:
In a meeting, if someone has a job to do, and the meeting is asked 'who wants to take this on?' --- only a short space of time will elapse before someone offers. YOU REMAIN SILENT == less work
Talk to a woman, make a compliment or something suggestive comes up, you may get the urge to quip or joke or move the conversation on so it doesn't seem significant, even though she seems to dig it. Nope! Silence + look into her eyes: SILENCE == connection + meaning
There's lots more examples, but you get the idea.
Sometimes, if you get the urge, just STFU and maybe the silence will work for you.
Any other tips out there?