so i like this girl....

Hey guys, maybe you can help me with this. First off, I'm 23, I'm from Iowa but have been living temporarily in Chicago just for a change of pace. Anyway, I come home for a week or 2 to take a break from online ***** and relax a little. So last night a couple of my friends and I got together for a friendly little ***** game.
I'll just get right to the point, a friend of mine (well more of an aquaintance) drops in a little later with one of his friends who happens to be the most beautiful girl I've ever seen /images/graemlins/shocked.gif. So we go on playing all the while I'm making small talk with her, I find out basically that she is from a nearby town (within a few miles), she's 23, and she works full time. I am totally attracted to this girl and would love to see her again... but the thing is, we all ended up leaving around 7 in the morning all tired and worn out, i never got her phone number, i dont know if she has a boy friend, and, obviously, i didnt ask her out. there was never really an opportunity to do so-- or maybe there was, i just missed it, i'm kinda really really bad at picking up girls. So i guess my question is: should i call this "aquaintance" and get her phone number from him, or would that be too weird? also, how the hell do you come up with the right moment to ask a girl whom you've just met out, let alone her phone number?

any suggestions/comments of any nature are appreciated /images/graemlins/wink.gif

[gulebjorn]

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So i guess my question is: should i call this "aquaintance" and get her phone number from him

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Clearly yes. That phonecall is also a good time to find out about the boyfriend issue.

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how the hell do you come up with the right moment to ask a girl whom you've just met out, let alone her phone number?

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Don't know, have never done that.

[diebitter]

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So i guess my question is: should i call this "aquaintance" and get her phone number from him

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Yes. Life is not a rehearsal.

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how the hell do you come up with the right moment to ask a girl whom you've just met out, let alone her phone number?

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When you two are talking about something both obviously agree on (your tack here 'you know, I'd love to talk about this more with you sometime, how about...'), or when you have tease-talked / inneundo-talked, and she smiles and/or teases/flirts back and looks in your eyes directly with a friendly expression. DO NOT break the glad-eyeing, and ask her then, and then smile a small, serene smile. You're showing confidenc without ego here, and that creates a very good impression.

[wacki]

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So i guess my question is: should i call this "aquaintance" and get her phone number from him, or would that be too weird?

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Yes. And when she asks, let her know how you got it. She will be in shock but it will be +EV.

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also, how the hell do you come up with the right moment to ask a girl whom you've just met out, let alone her phone number?

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Oh, I don't know. Sometime before she leaves, and sometime after you get her to laugh, smile, or stare into your eyes and you realize that there are balls attached to your penis.

[gulebjorn]

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Oh, I don't know. Sometime before she leaves, and sometime after you get her to laugh or smile and you realize that there are balls attached to your penis.

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I laughed out loud. It hurt my head a little.

[RacersEdge]

Something like "so what's the deal with (hotty's name)" would be the way to bring it up with your acquaintance. Thing is, are you sure she is not with him?

[eviljeff]

you created a gimmick account for this?

She is too far away. Just forget it. Think about how much easier and more easily accessable your porn-drive is.

[ahnuld]

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So i guess my question is: should i call this "aquaintance" and get her phone number from him

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Yes. Life is not a rehearsal.

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how the hell do you come up with the right moment to ask a girl whom you've just met out, let alone her phone number?

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When you two are talking about something both obviously agree on (your tack here 'you know, I'd love to talk about this more with you sometime, how about...'), or when you have tease-talked / inneundo-talked, and she smiles and/or teases/flirts back and looks in your eyes directly with a friendly expression. DO NOT break the glad-eyeing, and ask her then, and then smile a small, serene smile. You're showing confidenc without ego here, and that creates a very good impression.

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Good post.

[diebitter]

Yeah, I keep forgetting this is OOT, and posting sane, reasonable advice. I should of course be talking bollocks like the other studs. /images/graemlins/grin.gif

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Yeah, I keep forgetting this is OOT, and posting sane, reasonable advice. I should of course be talking bollocks like the other studs. /images/graemlins/grin.gif

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Don't worry, they are just not as cool as you. Keep giving sound advice.

[imported_anacardo]

You have so many little moves. It's insane. Carefully-constructed eye contact really isn't within my psychological capacity, but I applaud your subtlety.

[utmt40]

Cant wait to see how this pans out. Should be another classic...

[Mason Hellmuth]

Go bang ten other girls.

[BongRips]

There is also the possibility that your friend is into this girl. I would say 99% of guys that are "just friends" with hot girls wish it wasn't like that. But that isn't a reason not to ask, just assume that it could be uncomfortable and he may even say no.