Why am I such a pussy?

[good2cu]

Im a freshman and college and I pull a far share of box. I lift weights 5(1/2) days the week and am well to be blunt pretty ripped. My problem is that I reallyyy like girls. Like not lik eI want to [censored] them but I'll meet a girl hook up with her and start talking to her and getttt so into her. And then she'll end up hooking up with another one ofmy friends of be turned off by my [censored] clinging self. I don't why I get so upset about things, I mean if you can't deal with the swings and the beats why the play the game?

More literal. I hook up with a chick on friday night. We hang out during the day on saturday. I'm hanging out with her, saturday night. We are making out all over the house we're partying at bathrom etc. Girl gives me the kiss of death, "Your too nice of a guy, your a guy I'd want to marry you can't be a random fling etc. etc.", we end up making out on taxi ride home. My friend who is a [censored] stud is hooking up with one of her friends on the taxi ride home, all the girls decide to come meet up with out friends. Only my girl shows up. Instantly clearly my girl is into the stud. I'm just like [censored] this go back to my room. Girl comes to apolgize and was like I told you your to nice of a guy. I tell her to have a fun night and have a nice life. She proceeds to tell me to [censored] off. I really dig this girl but still let her walk out my room and just yell [censored] you bitch. Proceed to smoke 10 of my roomates ciggartes and wallow in self pity. This was my problem throughout all of high schol, just liking girls way too much and being too nic,e to them. I am now going to listen to emo music like the [censored] little girl i was in high school. Thinks for litening to my druken whining. It made me feel better at least. Yet im going to get phiosocpal and leave myself with some hope.
"Me as I think I am and me as I am in fact---sorrow, in other words, and the ending of sorrow. One third, more or less, of all the sorrow that the person I think I am must endure is unavoidable. it is the sorrow inherent in the human condition, the price we pay for being sentient and self-conscious organisms, aspirants to liberation, but subject to the laws of nature and under orders to keep on marching, through irreversible time, through a world entirely indifferent to our well-being, toward decrepitude and the certainty of death. The remaining two-thirds of sorrow is homemade and, so far as the universe is concerned, unnecessary. "

Yet even though I have become rational thinking and not controlled by emtions in pooker I still let them [censored] eat my lfie. I'm passing out, please leave lots of posts telling me this girl is a bitch.

[Evan]

you should seriously consider killing yourself

[Eurotrash]

edit: nvm

[Boris]

Good post. Your buddy is going to be tired tomorrow after laying the pipe to your dream girl all night long. Too bad. Now go kill yourself

[good2cu]

haha my druken thoughts are confirmed. Sucide time. goodbye cruel world.

[orange]

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haha my druken thoughts are confirmed. Sucide time. goodbye cruel world.

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Godspeed.

[Joshssj4]

Worst day ever (http://emoorangesmovie.ytmnd.com/)

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haha my druken thoughts are confirmed. Sucide time. goodbye cruel world.

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Godspeed.

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hahahaha no attention for u on this one...are u gonna ask ur friend for details when he's done nailing her?

[NLSoldier]

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you should seriously consider killing yourself

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[NLSoldier]

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Good post. Your buddy is going to be tired tomorrow after laying the pipe to your dream girl all night long. Too bad. Now go kill yourself

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[good2cu]

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Worst day ever (http://emoorangesmovie.ytmnd.com/)

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thanks for the video. put things into propsetive.

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Yet im going to get phiosocpal

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yeah, this always helps me put things in perspective.

[wacki]

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Good post. Your buddy is going to be tired tomorrow after laying the pipe to your dream girl all night long. Too bad. Now go kill yourself

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WTF is wrong with you people?

[Eurotrash]

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WTF is with you, answer your PM homeskillet

You should either A. enjoy college and do not view women as anything besides a hole or B. Find a women that is looking for the same things you are. If she hooks up with you when you first meet her she probably wont fit in this category. Good luck finding an 18/19 year that isn't into getting wasted and [censored] every alpha male she sees.

I'm having the exact same problem, except without all that extra bullshit you put in. That being said, my problem has something to do with running out of ammo in Resident Evil 4 and running out of space on my harddrive for all the porn.

[Lazymeatball]

I like the OP, I feel bad for him. He should learn to drink more and be an [censored] for no reason. then he''ll fit in much better here.

[emil3000]

This reminds me of Catcher In the Rye for some reason. OP are you actually Holden Caulfield?

[Popinjay]

Listen, you need to change your whole perspective on ladies. Girls are FUN. F-U-N. Why? Not because you can [censored] em but they are F-U-N to talk to. FUN TO TALK TO. Get that in your head. Then start talking to girls. But make it F-U-N. DO NOT talk about their problems or your emo problems. Just have FUN. Then you will get the pussy. You won't even have to seduce em if you are as ripped as you say.

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Listen, you need to change your whole perspective on ladies. Girls are FUN. F-U-N. Why? Not because you can [censored] em but they are F-U-N to talk to. FUN TO TALK TO. Get that in your head. Then start talking to girls. But make it F-U-N. DO NOT talk about their problems or your emo problems. Just have FUN. Then you will get the pussy. You won't even have to seduce em if you are as ripped as you say.

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I think he is trying to say to give them a little room to come to you. If you act like you are having a good time regardless if they come or go they will probably come. No pun intended.

Girls arent usually fun in that sense. I mean most girls that you are friends with are ones you want to [censored] or already tried and some how you got talked into being friends.

Meh.

[JustToast]

Women enjoy being treated like [censored] by guys obviously. Treat her like the cum dumpster she is, and you'll be all good.

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Im a freshman and college and I pull a far share of box.

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i'm still not convinced you're a nice guy. now what ?

[Roy Munson]

I can't begin to answer why you are a whiny ass pussy but just know that you will likely always be one.

What is more alarming than your level of pussydom is that you attend college and are borderline illiterate. Your high school should have its accreditation revoked if your post is an accurate reflection of your writing ability.

[jakethebake]

The problem is you're looking for things from the wrong people. You want two things. 1) Emotional companionship from a girl. 2) To fuck someone silly.

You have some choices.

1) Find a girlfriend that will fulfill both. Look for someone that you can have both with. This girl is probably not the same as the girl you will fuck silly in a random fling.

2) Find different girls to be friends with and get your emotional companionship from from the ones you fuck silly. If you do this, treat the girls differently. Don't be Mr. Nice Guy to the ones you want to fuck silly, and be a good friend to the ones you're friends with.

3) Fuck-buddies is in my mind the perfect relationship. Despite Dr. Dom's advice, I beleive this is possible, although rare. The situation has to be right and there has to be a lot of honestly between the two people. But I've been there before and had it work. If you're lucky wnough to find a girl that this can work with, don't fuck it up by falling in love with her or something. And treat her like a friend. Just keep the friendship and the fucking separate. It can be done.

[InchoateHand]

The problem is you are a whiny little bitch. And a pathetic little drama queen.

Go find LethalRose, he's somehow managed to survive into his late teen years with social skills roughly equal to yours.

Stop being an overly nice guy...Problem Solved!

[jakethebake]

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Stop being an overly nice guy, especially to girls you want to bang until they stop breathing ...Problem Solved!

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[siccjay]

Stop being a bitch. Bitch.

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Stop being an overly nice guy, especially to girls you want to fuck until they stop breathing ...Problem Solved!

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I knew I forgot something!

[Los Feliz Slim]

OK, I was once like this and I feel bad for you, so I'm going to try to help. Stop doing what you think women want you to do, and start doing what you want to do. Women - and people in general - like confidence, not doormats. And you are a doormat. This doesn't mean be an asshole all the time, it means be an asshole when you feel like being an asshole and be nice when you feel like being nice. This way, you are you instead of some meaningless creation. Until you start doing for yourself, you don't actually exist, and who wants to be with someone who doesn't exist?

Unfortunately, it is highly likely you won't be able to comprehend the above until you've been kicked around so long that you get completely sick of it and have no other choice. But when that happens, you will be a happier man.

[jakethebake]

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OK, I was once like this and I feel bad for you, so I'm going to try to help. Stop doing what you think women want you to do, and start doing what you want to do. Women - and people in general - like confidence, not doormats. And you are a doormat. This doesn't mean be an asshole all the time, it means be an asshole when you feel like being an asshole and be nice when you feel like being nice. This way, you are you instead of some meaningless creation. Until you start doing for yourself, you don't actually exist, and who wants to be with someone who doesn't exist?

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This is a truly excellent post!

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OK, I was once like this and I feel bad for you, so I'm going to try to help. Stop doing what you think women want you to do, and start doing what you want to do. Women - and people in general - like confidence, not doormats. And you are a doormat. This doesn't mean be an asshole all the time, it means be an asshole when you feel like being an asshole and be nice when you feel like being nice. This way, you are you instead of some meaningless creation. Until you start doing for yourself, you don't actually exist, and who wants to be with someone who doesn't exist?

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Very well said and so true! Excellent post!

[Warik]

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Stop doing what you think women want you to do, and start doing what you want to do.

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Listen to this man.

The first time I tried it, it worked. Confidence ftw.

[Los Feliz Slim]

A good friend of mine and I were drinking on a Tuesday morning in college when it all became clear. He was in love with his best "friend" woman, I was getting played like a violin by a hot girl who was using me. We decided, finally, we were done. We called it the Dawn Of the New Era - D.O.N.E.

I can honestly say everything changed that winter morning. I got rid of the woman who was making me miserable and into several meaningful (and not so meaningful) relationships that were fulfilling in many ways, culminating in my marriage. My friend is currently married to his "friend" from way back, and they have an eight month old daughter.

D.O.N.E. Learn it, love it, live it.

[jakethebake]

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A good friend of mine and I were drinking on a Tuesday morning in college when it all became clear. He was in love with his best "friend" woman, I was getting played like a violin by a hot girl who was using me. We decided, finally, we were done. We called it the Dawn Of the New Era - D.O.N.E.

I can honestly say everything changed that winter morning. I got rid of the woman who was making me miserable and into several meaningful (and not so meaningful) relationships that were fulfilling in many ways, culminating in my marriage. My friend is currently married to his "friend" from way back, and they have an eight month old daughter.

D.O.N.E. Learn it, love it, live it.

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Awesome! I think we all know this is correct. We just forget it at times. So your friend actually worked his way out from under the "friend" thing?

[Los Feliz Slim]

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So your friend actually worked his way out from under the "friend" thing?

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I'll tell you what he did. THAT VERY AFTERNOON he marched over to her apartment and told her that the "friend" thing wasn't going to work. She could be with him, or with the jackass she was dating, but he wasn't going to stand around and watch her date these asshats while he pines away. She had a choice to make, and she made the correct choice. She broke up with her current boyfriend, who was a cock, and they started dating immediately. They've been together ever since (this all happened in 1994). It's truly inspirational.

[Yako]

Tell your friend I said he's a beast! That must have taken a lot of guts to do. Glad it all worked out for him. Wish I had that kind of confidence.

[jakethebake]

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Tell your friend I said he's a beast! That must have taken a lot of guts to do. Glad it all worked out for him. Wish I had that kind of confidence.

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That is pretty awesome. I've done similar in the past but I don't think I've actually worked out from being a friend to fuckable except in the fuck-buddies instance. Where I get in trouble is where I actually want to be friends with the girl but actually also want to bang her. I usually end up settling for friends in these cases. That's fine. I have no problem with it. I still maintain that fuck-buddies is a truly awesome thing when it works.

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I'll tell you what he did. THAT VERY AFTERNOON he marched over to her apartment and told her that the "friend" thing wasn't going to work. She could be with him, or with the jackass she was dating, but he wasn't going to stand around and watch her date these asshats while he pines away. She had a choice to make, and she made the correct choice. She broke up with her current boyfriend, who was a cock, and they started dating immediately. They've been together ever since (this all happened in 1994). It's truly inspirational.

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I've tried this with 2 women who I was 'friends' with. With one, I had the best relationship of my life. The other, we just sort of faded away. But, I felt better even if I did "ruin the friendship". If you find yourself in that position, I whole-heartedly suggest making the move.

[KingCon]

Turn queer, women love a gay man.

[wacki]

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WTF is wrong with you people?

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WTF is with you, answer your PM homeskillet

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a wacki haiku!

Daryn never drinks
Eurotrash lost respect for him.
Eurotrash is dumb.

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Turn queer, women love a gay man.

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The only problem is, so do....

[sublime]

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Turn queer, women love a gay man.

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The only problem is, so do....

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