getting married...

[montechristo]

haha well maybe. basically I am a poor poker player/bum. I don't want to marry this girl if I can't "support" her, but she has her own career.

we don't want an expensive wedding but I want to have a nice trip/honeymoon to hawaii. we want to buy a house together, maybe move to New Zealand. I make $40K a year she makes $30/K as a graphic designer, but is just starting and can probably make more in a year or two. no kids right away.
Do we have enough money to get married? I am 20K in debt, she has 25K of student loans.

[ThisHo]

If "do we have enough money to get married" is a question then you shouldn't get married. If you love her enough to get married then you'll figure it out.

[Shajen]

love don't give a [censored] about money.

[HopeydaFish]

How old are you?

[Jersey Nick]

If your 20K of debt is credit card debt, she should dump you immediately.

[Jersey Nick]

[ QUOTE ]
If your 20K of debt is credit card debt, she should dump you immediately.

[/ QUOTE ] Oh, and tell her to PM me after she does.