12-12-2001, 02:23 PM
Hello everyone,
I'm a first time poster here, I usually just lurk as I play the game only occasionally and feel I would not have much useful to contribute to the experts. But as I always see a wide array of useful responses both to Poker questions and other questions I though I would put this to you folks.
Here goes: My cousin taught me to play poker about two years ago. He was a self-proclaimed "professional" and regularly showed me his stacks of hundred dollar bills to attempt to prove it to me. I had seen him play however and was fairly certain he was only fooling himself. My concerns were realized when he came to me after his third GA meeting and told me he was filing bankruptcy with over 30K in debt and no assets. I'm happy to at least see him trying to get help, but I have my doubts.
What I'm more concerned about right now is that I co signed for his car loan a couple years ago. I was wondering if this would have any effect on my credit, etc. I realize I'm responsible to the bank, and that's not a problem, but I'm wondering if anything else happens to me. Also, just in case there's anything he's not telling me, would I have even known about this if he didn't tell me or tried to reaffirm the car loan or something?
I feel horrible that this is what my first post is about, but while I would like to help him, I do have to worry about my own financial situation as well.
Anyone have any thoughts?
TJM
I'm a first time poster here, I usually just lurk as I play the game only occasionally and feel I would not have much useful to contribute to the experts. But as I always see a wide array of useful responses both to Poker questions and other questions I though I would put this to you folks.
Here goes: My cousin taught me to play poker about two years ago. He was a self-proclaimed "professional" and regularly showed me his stacks of hundred dollar bills to attempt to prove it to me. I had seen him play however and was fairly certain he was only fooling himself. My concerns were realized when he came to me after his third GA meeting and told me he was filing bankruptcy with over 30K in debt and no assets. I'm happy to at least see him trying to get help, but I have my doubts.
What I'm more concerned about right now is that I co signed for his car loan a couple years ago. I was wondering if this would have any effect on my credit, etc. I realize I'm responsible to the bank, and that's not a problem, but I'm wondering if anything else happens to me. Also, just in case there's anything he's not telling me, would I have even known about this if he didn't tell me or tried to reaffirm the car loan or something?
I feel horrible that this is what my first post is about, but while I would like to help him, I do have to worry about my own financial situation as well.
Anyone have any thoughts?
TJM