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joecash
05-08-2005, 11:20 PM
I see this girl who works at a place I go a lot, and we are strating to talk some the last few weeks. This might sound dumb, but whats a good name to call her - like in a flirting way? Something like "gorgeous" or "sexy" might be over the top . How about "babe"? I'm trying to get a little more casual with her.



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-Skeme-
05-08-2005, 11:21 PM
Call her Hardbod. Chicks love Hardbod.

slickpoppa
05-08-2005, 11:21 PM
address her with her real name. seriously, people like the sound of their own name

Pocket Trips
05-08-2005, 11:23 PM
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I see this girl who works at a place I go a lot, and we are strating to talk some the last few weeks. This might sound dumb, but whats a good name to call her - like in a flirting way? Something like "gorgeous" or "sexy" might be over the top . How about "babe"? I'm trying to get a little more casual with her.



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sperm-guzzling gutter slut... ( 14 more to go /images/graemlins/grin.gif)

Dubra
05-08-2005, 11:26 PM
cumdumpster

13 to go

TStoneMBD
05-08-2005, 11:28 PM
go with porky

-Skeme-
05-08-2005, 11:30 PM
Hot piece of ass should do it.

Soul Daddy
05-08-2005, 11:31 PM
Call her 'dude'

SackUp
05-08-2005, 11:35 PM
Instead of "sup bro" you should go with a variation.

"sup girl"

"sup babe" or my fave

"sup slut"

Patrick del Poker Grande
05-08-2005, 11:37 PM
Hoss.

-Skeme-
05-08-2005, 11:37 PM
Winner.

IndieMatty
05-08-2005, 11:40 PM
Mom

Patrick del Poker Grande
05-08-2005, 11:41 PM
Thanks. I've also found that Sweet-tits and Super Cooter work quite nicely.

thatpfunk
05-08-2005, 11:43 PM
darlin' or dear (sarcastic playful tone)

imported_CaseClosed326
05-08-2005, 11:45 PM
Tits

Zoltri
05-08-2005, 11:51 PM
Call her [censored] [censored] [censored] [censored] [censored] [censored] [censored] [censored] [censored] [censored] [censored] [censored] [censored] [censored] [censored] [censored] [censored] [censored].

Take the over. /images/graemlins/smirk.gif

Ulysses
05-08-2005, 11:58 PM
"beautiful" works well if you can pull it off right. "wonderful" is another decent option.

thatpfunk
05-08-2005, 11:59 PM
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"wonderful" is another decent option.

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good one.

Bluffoon
05-09-2005, 12:06 AM
I start off with cutie and as I get more familiar I start slipping in a beautiful here and there.

Patrick del Poker Grande
05-09-2005, 12:09 AM
What's this chick's name, or at least the one she gave you?

Oh and I just wanted to mention how much I love the serious discussion in these threads. It's awesome to get a little glimpse of the average OOTiot's 'game'.

johnnybeef
05-09-2005, 12:20 AM
that usually gets the panties right off for me at least....

ThaSaltCracka
05-09-2005, 12:21 AM
if she is somewhat young, around 20ish, call her shorty, especially if she is into hip hop.

_2000Flushes
05-09-2005, 12:21 AM
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Call her 'dude'

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I haven't laughed this hard since I saw the pizza delivery scene in Home Alone.

-2kF

BWebb
05-09-2005, 12:24 AM
I'd go with sweetie.

TStoneMBD
05-09-2005, 12:36 AM
sweetie will just make you her friend.

sweetie will never lead to pootie.

joecash
05-09-2005, 12:39 AM
Hmmm.."sweeetie" might work...or "cutie"...

I think I need to wearing a cowboy hat to say "darlin"

and actually, her real name is not bad..

whats the "shorty" thing - I dont like hip hop, I think I heard it in an usher song though..

thatpfunk
05-09-2005, 12:46 AM
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I think I need to wearing a cowboy hat to say "darlin"

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hence the sarcastic, playful tone. Southern California girls find it playful/uncommon.

ethan
05-09-2005, 12:48 AM
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Thanks. I've also found that Sweet-tits and Super Cooter work quite nicely.

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I've called a girl "sweet-tits" and had it work in my favor. Probably not the route OP wants to take, though.

-Skeme-
05-09-2005, 12:49 AM
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if she is somewhat young, around 20ish, call her shorty, especially if she is into hip hop.

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Do you call chicks "bro" ?

nbake
05-09-2005, 12:56 AM
I would definitely go with BooBooKittyFuck

theBruiser500
05-09-2005, 01:00 AM
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"beautiful" works well if you can pull it off right.

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this is the best by far

slickpoppa
05-09-2005, 01:02 AM
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"beautiful" works well if you can pull it off right.

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this is the best by far

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You have never had a girlfriend and you are making judgments about the best flirting name?

dutchbrodymoss
05-09-2005, 01:10 AM
Call her
"Object that Provides for Sexual Gratification"

The Yugoslavian
05-09-2005, 01:12 AM
This is very read/woman dependent. It also is very important whether or not you can pull of the word you choose....a few more word to think about:

pixie
ravashing
radiant
aura
dazzling
enticing

I like the idea of using a fairly original word that she doesn't hear very often day-to-day (either in reference to herself or someone else)...the trick is to find one that will flow and be natural coming from you and your personality.

Good luck.

Yugoslav

joecash
05-09-2005, 01:17 AM
actually, I forgot this, but she always smells great too and I told her - that went over well...I was thinking of "chanel" just to play off a name of a perfume...

bort411
05-09-2005, 01:26 AM
Call her by her proper first name if that's not the norm, ie Jennifer instead of Jenny.

That or Honeytits.

zephed56
05-09-2005, 03:08 AM
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"beautiful" works well if you can pull it off right. "wonderful" is another decent option.

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You've got to be kidding.

housenuts
05-09-2005, 03:10 AM
dollface is my favourite. i use it on cashiers all the time. not because i'm trying to pick them up but because i think it makes them uncomfortable and it makes me laugh inside.

when i've already used dollface in a sentence and the conversation calls for another term of endearment i usually throw in sweetheart, dear, or love. so much fun.

Dantes
05-09-2005, 03:18 AM
The clear winner is babe.

IggyWH
05-09-2005, 03:29 AM
My bread and butter is usually babedoll...

Babydoll seems like you're trying to hard and that's something you'd call you girl, not some random chick. So the babe instead of baby lightens it up some.

scotty34
05-09-2005, 03:44 AM
I would have to go with either "cutie" or using her real name. Both are very good options.

B00T
05-09-2005, 03:51 AM
squirt


and when you squirt on her face a week later she'll know why you were calling her that all along

Matty
05-09-2005, 04:03 AM
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address her with her real name. seriously, people like the sound of their own name

[/ QUOTE ]This is the correct answer. Play around with her own name. Lisa Marie Fischer, Lisa, Lisa Marie, etc.

Yeti
05-09-2005, 04:29 AM
'y'alright love?'

nate1729
05-09-2005, 04:38 AM
OP: "Hey, Aura..."
"Aura": Huh? What the...
OP: "Uh, I mean, hey, Enticing..."
"Aura" / "Enticing": Please don't be talking to me.

handsome
05-09-2005, 04:46 AM
Dude, if you're trying to be more than just acquaintances with her, no one word like "babe" or "beautiful" is gonna win her over. Make her laugh. Bust her balls. Tease her. You're attracted to her, but you don't want her to know. So reverse the roles and make her think she's attracted to you. Then give us an update after you bang her brains out.

Rick Nebiolo
05-09-2005, 05:28 AM
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address her with her real name. seriously, people like the sound of their own name

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I was going to reply along these lines without looking at the thread then I said to myself at least a third of the respondents already would say this. So I looked at the thread in flat mode. I should have bet the under /images/graemlins/smile.gif.

~ Rick

Evan
05-09-2005, 05:36 AM
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make her think she's attracted to you

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This made me laugh.

handsome
05-09-2005, 05:49 AM
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make her think she's attracted to you

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This made me laugh.

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Thanks. I'm glad I made at least one nerd laugh.

J_V
05-09-2005, 06:01 AM
The only decent answer.

J_V
05-09-2005, 06:07 AM
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I see this girl who works at a place I go a lot, and we are strating to talk some the last few weeks. This might sound dumb, but whats a good name to call her - like in a flirting way? Something like "gorgeous" or "sexy" might be over the top . How about "babe"?

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Please don't do that.

Be interesing and make her laugh.

If you can't make her laugh, you are boned because that means two things are true: You are not funny and she is not attracted to you.

If you are a good story teller, tell stories. It's a huge lost art when it comes to macking on women. It doesn't even have to be good. But remember, if you start floundering EXAGERRATE!

goofball
05-09-2005, 07:57 AM
sperm receptacle

jakethebake
05-09-2005, 08:05 AM
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I think I need to wearing a cowboy hat to say "darlin"

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This is a terrible habit I have. But I'm from Texas so I just grew up using it. It gets me in trouble sometimes.

tbach24
05-09-2005, 08:16 AM
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'y'alright love?'

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I'm going to guess that this is only for guys in GB.

drexah
05-09-2005, 08:58 AM
Real name is definitely better than 'babe' or 'sexy'. It just shows attention and is much more personal and less creepy then saying "bye sexy" or "hey baby". When a girl uses my real name i can tell she likes me

drexah
05-09-2005, 09:00 AM
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"beautiful" works well if you can pull it off right.

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this is the best by far

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You have never had a girlfriend and you are making judgments about the best flirting name?

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ahahahaha ouuuuch.

dmk
05-09-2005, 09:01 AM
i used to call my wife babe all the time, and it eventually morphed into babs. she loves being called babs, not sure why really. probably because she doesn't hear anyone else ever use that, so she feels its unique to her.

M2d
05-09-2005, 11:45 AM
just walk in and say "sup bro"

Rick Diesel
05-09-2005, 12:36 PM
Where the hell is Leon Phelps when you need him? To take the advice that Leon would obviously give, the correct answer is "Whaaaasup saaaweeeeet thang?"

asofel
05-09-2005, 12:49 PM
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I see this girl who works at a place I go a lot, and we are strating to talk some the last few weeks. This might sound dumb, but whats a good name to call her - like in a flirting way? Something like "gorgeous" or "sexy" might be over the top . How about "babe"? I'm trying to get a little more casual with her.



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cutie. a bunch of people have said it, and they're right. You want a little familiarity before using it, but it sounds like you've built that up just fine. Its not too complimentary and you can say it easily with a smile. Try and post results.

IndieMatty
05-09-2005, 12:51 PM
Oh and the real answer for me is. I naturally may call some girls "babe" who am I close to. (not even flirting) same with beautiful. This generally isn't a pre-conceived play though, I'm just naturally charming. /images/graemlins/tongue.gif

DrPublo
05-09-2005, 01:19 PM
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squirt


and when you squirt on her face a week later she'll know why you were calling her that all along

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POTD.

The Doc

gorie
05-09-2005, 01:40 PM
winner = tits.
however, only a select few can pull this off. this guy i know likes to say "sup, tits" to me , it always makes me wanna hump him. /images/graemlins/heart.gif
although i think it helps if the girl already wants to hump you.

cutie is nice, but it might be weird if a guy started calling me cutie that wasn't my boyfriend. cutie/sweetie seem too couple-y. i dunno maybe it's ok..

it is very nice to be called by name. but don't say it more than 3 times in a row. that's the rules.

hon, is by far the worst.

babe is always good. more guys should call me babe. it makes me want to hump them.

my boyfriend called me dude the other day while grabbing for my boobs without realizing it (like "i dunno dude" in response to something i said). as cool as it is when guys call me dude or man, when boob grabbing is involved that's just WRONG ! /images/graemlins/mad.gif i haven't let him touch me since.
try it out though. i kinda like "sup bro" too. that's pretty hot.

Pocket Trips
05-09-2005, 01:49 PM
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Where the hell is Leon Phelps when you need him? To take the advice that Leon would obviously give, the correct answer is "Whaaaasup saaaweeeeet thang?"

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Can I buy you a Pork sandwich?

Bulldog
05-09-2005, 02:01 PM
The correct answer is Peaches.

The Yugoslavian
05-09-2005, 02:03 PM
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OP: "Hey, Aura..."
"Aura": Huh? What the...
OP: "Uh, I mean, hey, Enticing..."
"Aura" / "Enticing": Please don't be talking to me.

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Yeah, this was more words I felt could be used in conjunction with the right name...

But whatever.

Yugoslav

J_V
05-09-2005, 02:12 PM
Excellent post.

Hon is awful. I don't let anyone call me hon under any circumstances. Not even old grandmas.

The whole key is not coming across creepy. Some people just look creepy and can't get away with a simple babe. Other people could throw sweet tits around all day, and no one would think much of it.

I'm busting out "sup, tits" this week for sure.

JaBlue
05-09-2005, 02:15 PM
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"beautiful" works well if you can pull it off right.

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this is the best by far

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this man knows what he's talking about

joecash
05-09-2005, 03:45 PM
There's one that hasn't been mentioned - I have used it before - it works - not sure why - but it's calling her by her last name. It's doing the opposite I guess - pretending to be real formal but it comes off kind of funny..



BTW, how experienced is the average OOTer with women?

FouTight
05-09-2005, 04:00 PM
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The correct answer is Peaches.

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definately a 'p' word, princess, peaches, precious, etc.

_2000Flushes
05-09-2005, 04:04 PM
Try using someone else's real name.

-2kF

jakethebake
05-09-2005, 04:09 PM
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The correct answer is Peaches.

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Too similar to peachy.

AsiaKurosawa
05-09-2005, 04:44 PM
Don't call her anything, pet names are weird unless you have some rappaport already. So create it-- ask her the name of her perfume (wow, I was thinking the other day how great you smelled, what's the name of your perfume again?), compliment her [hair-- it looks really nice when you wear it down; nails, skin, jewelry, shoes...] whatever's new/noticable/she made an effort on, maybe clothes unless she works in a uniform.

Now if it's a nurse's uniform and you go to the clinic a lot...

jakethebake
05-09-2005, 04:52 PM
I love you, Shmoopie!

masse75
05-09-2005, 08:53 PM
Wait until she wears purple to work, then call her "Grimace."

Anybody know why large girls like purple? Aren't they just setting themselves up?

coltrane
05-09-2005, 09:25 PM
doll