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DireWolf
04-25-2005, 04:46 PM
In High School i had a group of 8 really good friends. Most of them had been best friends for their whole life. One of them(Ben) went out with this girl for basically all 4 years of high school. We will call her Jenna. So Jenna and one of my other best friends(Dan) went to the same college. My friend Ben is still obsessed with Jenna. He tries to hide it, sometimes getting with other girls, but everyone can tell. Jenna, on the other hand, doesn't wanna be with Ben, and has told him that many times.

So Jenna and Dan hooked up twice at school. Both were just drunken hookups, and nothing will come of them. All my other friends have known about this for quite some time, but no one has said anything to Ben. Somehow Ben found out though and is real pissed at Dan. He says their friendship is over, and he wants to beat his ass.

How bad was this for Dan to do.

LALDAAS
04-25-2005, 04:51 PM
Bad, bad, bad VERY BAD!

Ending a life long friendship... Stupid.

Still bad though.

Piz0wn0reD!!!!!!
04-25-2005, 04:54 PM
people need to lighten the [censored] up.

jakethebake
04-25-2005, 04:54 PM
Hmmmm.... Unlike most people, I'm not normally offended and don';t really understand the whole "no doing a friend's ex" thing. But if he's a good friend and still has such feelings for the girl, I think you should avoid it. With that said, if I were drunk enough and she were hot enough...

Post some damn pics and I'll give my opinion.

Porcupine
04-25-2005, 04:54 PM
Not good, but need clarification on some things.

Ben and Jenna broke up at the end of high school?
How long after did Dan and Jenna hook up?

DireWolf
04-25-2005, 04:55 PM
haha, ok ill post pics for 2 minutes and then take them down. so get ready if u want to see them

DireWolf
04-25-2005, 04:56 PM
5-7 months

jakethebake
04-25-2005, 04:56 PM
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haha, ok ill post pics for 2 minutes and then take them down. so get ready if u want to see them

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fair enough. where are they?

LALDAAS
04-25-2005, 05:00 PM
lets go! were are the pics!

jakethebake
04-25-2005, 05:01 PM
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lets go! were are the pics!

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TimM
04-25-2005, 05:01 PM
Ben is being silly and needs to get over it.

Beerfund
04-25-2005, 05:02 PM
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siccjay
04-25-2005, 05:02 PM
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kerssens
04-25-2005, 05:02 PM
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haha, ok ill post pics for 2 minutes and then take them down. so get ready if u want to see them

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fair enough. where are they?

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I'm getting the feeling that there are no pics forthcoming and there never were...bastard.

DireWolf
04-25-2005, 05:03 PM
hold on
they may have been taken down, im looking.
God this is sad

LALDAAS
04-25-2005, 05:03 PM
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haha, ok ill post pics for 2 minutes and then take them down. so get ready if u want to see them

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fair enough. where are they?

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I'm getting the feeling that there are no pics forthcoming and there never were...bastard.

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Flase promise of pics of a chick should be banned!

tdarko
04-25-2005, 05:06 PM
this isn't bad at all. my gf now of two years came from a similiar situation, my close friend that i knew since i was 4 had the biggest crush on her and asked her out numerous times and she said no everytime b/c she thought he was a funny guy but nothing else. my gf and i started dating and my buddy was unbelievably pissed telling me i stabbed him in the back blah blah blah, its been two years and my buddy realizes "ITS JUST A GIRL" and we are the way we used to be, tonight we are going fishing /images/graemlins/grin.gif.

BWebb
04-25-2005, 05:07 PM
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we are the way we used to be, tonight we are going fishing /images/graemlins/grin.gif.

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What if his boss wants him to work on the weekend?

DireWolf
04-25-2005, 05:08 PM
allright here is the only one i can find. and since you guys want it so bad, ill post it for a little bit. She is pretty hot actually, and has a nice ass. enjoy it.

LALDAAS
04-25-2005, 05:09 PM
BROKEN LNK!

tdarko
04-25-2005, 05:09 PM
cant see it.

Soul Daddy
04-25-2005, 05:10 PM
That's a little different, no? A lifelong crush vs an actual 4-year relationship.

However, I agree with your point that time will heal this wound. It seems major at this point, but it will become trivial as the days pass. And if they're good enough friends they'll figure it out.

mmbt0ne
04-25-2005, 05:10 PM
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allright here is the only one i can find. and since you guys want it so bad, ill post it for a little bit. She is pretty hot actually, and has a nice ass. enjoy it.

http://images.kodakgallery.com/photos777/3/41/79/31/77/0/77317941306_0_SM.jpg

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Dude, that is hella weak. Just go back to not having any pictures.

tdarko
04-25-2005, 05:11 PM
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i believe you get ya ass beat for sayin' somethin' like that.

jakethebake
04-25-2005, 05:11 PM
It's 1cm x 1.5cm. Can anyone see this?

DireWolf
04-25-2005, 05:11 PM
i made it bigger

Alobar
04-25-2005, 05:11 PM
If you dan and ben are actually friends. Dan is huge fuckwad and deserves a beating. It doesnt matter how long ago Jenna and Ben broke up, all that matters isben is still hung up on her. You dont do that to a buddy. No chick (much less just a drunken hook up) is worth a life long friendship.

tdarko
04-25-2005, 05:13 PM
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That's a little different, no? A lifelong crush vs an actual 4-year relationship.


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yeah i guess you're right, i figured it would be close to the same thing since my buddy was strangely obsessed with her.

either way, the ex needs to move on its just not healthy to be like that about someone.

TimM
04-25-2005, 05:13 PM
Cut and paste it to a new browser. Of course I saved the pic just in case he takes it down. /images/graemlins/tongue.gif Now who is who?

jakethebake
04-25-2005, 05:14 PM
She's doable. Are those the two guys in question as well?

Beerfund
04-25-2005, 05:14 PM
Yea, she could get it. Tell Ben not to be a hater and FUKCING GET OVER IT!

jakethebake
04-25-2005, 05:15 PM
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Of course I saved the pic just in case he takes it down.

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Me too. Tell her I'll enjoy her tonite. /images/graemlins/grin.gif

DireWolf
04-25-2005, 05:16 PM
haha, nah those are two other guys.

DireWolf
04-25-2005, 05:16 PM
i guess ill just have to wait until you post the pic again.

tdarko
04-25-2005, 05:22 PM
well i will assume she is hot since i never actually saw the picture but i don't think what she looks like is the point, the point is people shouldn't be so uptight about chicks and who likes who etc.

if i banged a chick one of my buddies was still crazy for and dated for a few years he would hi-five me and buy me a beer (its happened). i just don't see why men get all pissy with each other, let the women do that they are better at it anyway.