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tdarko

03-31-2005, 12:13 AM

ok i need the advice of fellow 2+2'ers.

i am in a great relationship of two years. she is beautiful and maybe the sweetest person i have ever met (waaaaay out of my league!). she has been wanting to get married for sometime now and i know she is the one so i plan on asking her to marry me in the fall.

i am in a hotel right now and when i checked in the lady at the counter was a very cute girl, probably about 5'6 125lbs, black hair and dark green eyes (not as hot as my gf though) and was chatting me up a little. well i went to get some food and had a few drinks, when i get back she stops me and talks to me a little more and like an idiot i invite her up to my room when she gets off work.

now of course her saying yes means a hook up, you dont just go to stranger's rooms and not expect some kind of fooling around. i am in a strange town that i will never be in again so if i did something it would never get back to my gf (i wouldnt tell a soul!). this girl is definately a girl that anyone on this forum would love to get with but i have already pretty much decided good conversation is the route to go because i seriously care about my gf.

i am wondering if anyone would go for it and why? am i making the right decision?

ilya

03-31-2005, 12:14 AM

I think you should unbutton her pants, but just a lil' bit.

seriously, though....just go ahead and hit it. the serious cheating happened in your head, when you lusted for another woman...and you'll have to live with that forever....so you might as well enjoy the inconsequential but highly pleasurable actual penis-in-vagina bit.

ThaSaltCracka

03-31-2005, 12:16 AM

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i know she is the one so i plan on asking her to marry me in the fall.

[/ QUOTE ] then don't bone the front desk chick.

Edge34

03-31-2005, 12:18 AM

The fact that you're asking this means you know the answer.

If you didn't have any problems with it, you wouldn't be asking a bunch of us. So the answer, just to spell it out, is to leave front desk chick's "special parts" alone.

And to answer your question, in your situation, hell no I wouldn't go for it. Definitely -EV.

tdarko

03-31-2005, 12:18 AM

well keep reading and i say that i am not going to, but i am young and a guy that isn't married and was curious as to who would take this opportunity and who wouldn't

TimM

03-31-2005, 12:21 AM

http://christianfecteau.com/static/seinfeld/musical/penis.jpg vs. http://christianfecteau.com/static/seinfeld/musical/brain.jpg ?

I think if she gets inside your room, the big head is going to lose.

ThaSaltCracka

03-31-2005, 12:26 AM

I read the whole post; don't even answer your door when she knocks.

tdarko

03-31-2005, 12:28 AM

yeah you are definately right.

but boy am i bored and company would be nice...but yeah you are right /images/graemlins/grin.gif

siccjay

03-31-2005, 12:28 AM

If the girl you are with is so great you shouldn't even be thinking about this.

tdarko

03-31-2005, 12:31 AM

yeah you are right too, but i am on the road and away from her for a long time now and sometimes you just need a little nudge in the right direction /images/graemlins/wink.gif

gamblore99

03-31-2005, 12:31 AM

I don't understand why your even thinking about it if you care so much about your girlfriend and plan on marrying her.

xpander

03-31-2005, 12:32 AM

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If the girl you are with is so great you shouldn't even be thinking about this.

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Not really. A great girl doesn't subdue temptation.

It'll rest on your conscious throughout the entire marriage. For your sanity, save the testosterone for your girl when you get back.

TimM

03-31-2005, 12:32 AM

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boy am i bored and company would be nice

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I think not answering the door would be rude, and the fact that she works there only makes it worse. One thing you could do, is if she comes up, explain that you really shouldn't have invited her, you have a girlfriend you love, etc., then invite her to the bar or lobby for some conversation.

ThaSaltCracka

03-31-2005, 12:32 AM

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yeah you are definately right.

but boy am i bored and company would be nice...but yeah you are right /images/graemlins/grin.gif

[/ QUOTE ]you have a computer, look at some porn and whack it.

Seriously, you do not want to put yourself in a situation where you may make a decision that you will regret doing.

What benefits are there to getting laid here? What are the potential negatives? Clearly the negatives outweigh the positives.

tdarko

03-31-2005, 12:35 AM

yeah inviting her to the hotel bar is perfect! its public and no hard feelings. thanks

tdarko

03-31-2005, 12:36 AM

yes i would definately regret it.

thanks for the advice.

xpander

03-31-2005, 12:39 AM

Check out channel 9, the breast exam is on.

DBowling

03-31-2005, 12:39 AM

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am in a strange town that i will never be in again so if i did something it would never get back to my gf

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didnt a kobe bryant story start this way?

tdarko

03-31-2005, 12:39 AM

hey peter man! dudn't that chick look like anne?

mason55

03-31-2005, 12:44 AM

I guess I'm in the minority.

Hit that [censored] DAWG!!!! If you're sure she's not going to find out go for it.

The only thing you have to worry about is your own conscience. If you're going to get drunk and tell her in 2 and a half weeks, don't do it. In fact, just kill yourself. If you can be a man and keep it inside, just hit that [censored]. Cheating is only bad if the other person finds out.

I don't care if my gf cheats as long as I don't find out (she's a slut anyways) and she is the same way about me (i'm a player). So just hit that [censored] raw dawg and bare, and make sure no one finds out.

holeplug

03-31-2005, 12:48 AM

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So just hit that [censored] raw dawg and bare, and make sure no one finds out.

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This is the 2nd time you misquoted the song now. Its bail not bare..

mason55

03-31-2005, 12:50 AM

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So just hit that [censored] raw dawg and bare, and make sure no one finds out.

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This is the 2nd time you misquoted the song now. Its bail not bare..

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Someone else misquoted it the first time, i just copied them cause I thought they knew what they were talking about and I was wrong. Go ahead. search. It wasn't me the first time. but you're still cool cause you know eminem by heart.

holeplug

03-31-2005, 01:02 AM

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So just hit that [censored] raw dawg and bare, and make sure no one finds out.

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This is the 2nd time you misquoted the song now. Its bail not bare..

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Someone else misquoted it the first time, i just copied them cause I thought they knew what they were talking about and I was wrong. Go ahead. search. It wasn't me the first time. but you're still cool cause you know eminem by heart.

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Oh. Whatever. Sorry then /images/graemlins/blush.gif

TimTimSalabim

03-31-2005, 01:06 AM

If only you had a million dollars, then you could do both girls at the same time.

Ulysses

03-31-2005, 06:01 AM

You don't really want to marry your gf and are looking for an excuse to break up with her. Bang this chick, then tell your gf what a jerk you are and break up with her so you don't have to get married when you're not really ready to settle down.

istewart

03-31-2005, 06:04 AM

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If only you had a million dollars, then you could do both girls at the same time.

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Lawrence - Damn straight. I always wanted to do that, man. And I think if I had a million dollars I could hook that up, cause chicks dig a dude with money.

Peter - Well, not all chicks.

Lawrence - Well the kind of chicks that'd double up on a dude like me do.

iMsoLucky0

03-31-2005, 09:53 AM

I would do the hotel chick. All you guys saying not to are nuts.

They say look at the negatives.... Okay so WHAT NEGATIVES? You might feel bad? [censored] man, get over it. Your girlfriend would NEVER know.

I guess it just comes down to what kind of person you are. I, for one, have no morals at all, and am currently engaged to a girl I love, but if I had this opportunity with no possible drawbacks (aside from my conscious, lol yeah right), I would hit it in a second.

Gamblor

03-31-2005, 11:02 AM

it's not the act of cheating itself that makes women insane; it's the possibility that you might be interested in someone else, thus putting doubt in her mind that you'll "always be there" to take care of her.

that's the determining factor here, and my degree of committment to any girl will tell me to what degree i am willing to go to assuage her fears.

ToneLoc

03-31-2005, 11:09 AM

Maes meYou guys should move to France, when bang1ng the front desk chick would be the default line...

Shajen

03-31-2005, 11:20 AM

Hey bro,

Whenever I find myself in a situation like this, I just think about how I would feel if my wife did this to me.

Not worth it. But then again, I'm married, and don't want to have to give up half my [censored].

RESULTS?

Mars357

03-31-2005, 11:24 AM

It's likely too late to chime in on this since you wrote it last night. I really hope you did the right thing and didn't cheat on your girlfriend...

If you did cheat and you go through with the marraige, you are headed for alamony payments dude. Patterns of behavior start with a single event. You'll get away with it this time, you'll think back on how hot it was to hook up with a strnager, next time you go out of town you'll think about it and start looking for a willing woman to nail. Eventually, your G/F / Wife will find out and you'll be done.

Then you'll be free to sit and think about you threw away a beautiful, sweet girl for a few hours of selfish pleasure...

Not to mention the fact that this chick was so easy to get to come to your room... You aren't the first and GOD knows what this woman will give you.... Can you imagine giving this gift to your girlfriend?

In the end, you'll be filled with regret...

All you young studs feel free to start calling me pussy... There are things in life that are MUCH more important than a piece of ass...

Mars357

03-31-2005, 11:25 AM

PS.

I'm sure I'm not the only one who would like to hear what you did....or didn't do

Rick Diesel

03-31-2005, 12:04 PM

If you are going to cheat, at least cheat up. Meaning the broad you are cheating with should be hotter than your girlfriend.

radek2166

03-31-2005, 12:14 PM

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ok i need the advice of fellow 2+2'ers.

i am in a great relationship of two years. she is beautiful and maybe the sweetest person i have ever met (waaaaay out of my league!). she has been wanting to get married for sometime now and i know she is the one so i plan on asking her to marry me in the fall.

i am in a hotel right now and when i checked in the lady at the counter was a very cute girl, probably about 5'6 125lbs, black hair and dark green eyes (not as hot as my gf though) and was chatting me up a little. well i went to get some food and had a few drinks, when i get back she stops me and talks to me a little more and like an idiot i invite her up to my room when she gets off work.

now of course her saying yes means a hook up, you dont just go to stranger's rooms and not expect some kind of fooling around. i am in a strange town that i will never be in again so if i did something it would never get back to my gf (i wouldnt tell a soul!). this girl is definately a girl that anyone on this forum would love to get with but i have already pretty much decided good conversation is the route to go because i seriously care about my gf.

i am wondering if anyone would go for it and why? am i making the right decision?

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DUMB ASS!!!!!!!!!!

radek2166

03-31-2005, 12:16 PM

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boy am i bored and company would be nice

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I think not answering the door would be rude, and the fact that she works there only makes it worse. One thing you could do, is if she comes up, explain that you really shouldn't have invited her, you have a girlfriend you love, etc., then invite her to the bar or lobby for some conversation.

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lol

LALDAAS

03-31-2005, 12:25 PM

WOW tough spot getting some strange without anyone every finding out hmmmmmm.

Dont do it, I did it. It was my ex I loved her to death, I got all banged up and nailed some so so chick I never would have if a didnt shoot down 6 double jameson's

I felt so guilty the second I saw her I spewed my chips.

Yup dont do it.

iMsoLucky0

03-31-2005, 12:31 PM

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I felt so guilty the second I saw her I spewed my chips.

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This is what it all boils down to. I would never feel guilty or spew my chips. It just comes down to a personal measure of your conscious. Can you live with it and not care? Can you keep it a secret? You have to answer these questions for yourself.
But seriously, who cares if it is "right" or "wrong" ?

tolbiny

03-31-2005, 12:38 PM

"seriously, though....just go ahead and hit it. the serious cheating happened in your head, when you lusted for another woman"

Do you really think you will never be attracted to another woman just because you are in love? He is not going to go his whole life without finding another woman- especially one flirting with you, as a sexual being. Even more so when stuck in a hotel out of town and quite possibly lonely. There is a huge difference between what he has done so far, and what he might end up doing.

Seriously, if you are going to use the excuse "were not married yet" to make youself ok with cheating, do you think you are going to go through married life without doing it again?

jakethebake

04-01-2005, 11:34 AM

So what happened? Did you do her in da butt?

mostsmooth

04-01-2005, 11:37 AM

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this girl is definately a girl that anyone on this forum would love to get with

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dont be too sure, if shes not asian, i wouldnt bother with her.

also, if youre asking the question, you already know the answer.doesnt matter what anybody else would do. if you feel the way it appears you do, right after you bang this chick, youre gonna feel like shlt. jmho

willie

04-01-2005, 11:38 AM

it's probably too late to say this

but jerk off and go to sleep.

Bluffoon

04-01-2005, 11:57 AM

tdarko

04-01-2005, 12:04 PM

i jerked off before she got up to my remove to remove all feelings of horniness. when she got in i said, "i just want to clear something up first, i invited you up for conversation and that's it. i don't want to lead you on or anything." she said, "um uh, well alright," she said it with a smile and got up and left my room.

so basically i woke up guilt free and w/o skeletons in my closet. /images/graemlins/grin.gif

mostsmooth

04-01-2005, 12:08 PM

now shes telling everybody youre gay, not that theres anything wrong with that /images/graemlins/cool.gif

willie

04-01-2005, 12:09 PM

disciplined lay down.

jakethebake

04-01-2005, 12:14 PM

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disciplined lay down.

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weak tight

tdarko

04-01-2005, 12:14 PM

haha she probably is but fortunately for me i will never be in that hole in the wall town again.

i will known as the guy that didn't poon Dana in that town and from all the clues i would be the only one /images/graemlins/wink.gif

tdarko

04-01-2005, 12:15 PM

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disciplined lay down.

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weak tight

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nh.

willie

04-01-2005, 12:15 PM

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disciplined lay down.

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weak tight

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i'd rather be weak tight in this situation than overly lag and getting called by the bigstack waiting on the otherside of the table.

meh, that was horrible. i apologize.

i wanna be me

04-01-2005, 01:31 PM

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I guess I'm in the minority.

Hit that [censored] DAWG!!!! If you're sure she's not going to find out go for it.

The only thing you have to worry about is your own conscience. If you're going to get drunk and tell her in 2 and a half weeks, don't do it. In fact, just kill yourself. If you can be a man and keep it inside, just hit that [censored]. Cheating is only bad if the other person finds out.

I don't care if my gf cheats as long as I don't find out (she's a slut anyways) and she is the same way about me (i'm a player). So just hit that [censored] raw dawg and bare, and make sure no one finds out.

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so you're getting married too right? haha...