Talking to girls at the gym

[BWebb]

Alright, just joined the local gym to help get myself back in shape. I'm not fat, but my cardio is weak. Anyway, like gyms all across the nation, there are a ton of hot chics walking around. Is there really any way to try to talk to these girls without it looking and feeling like you are just hitting on them? Maybe it wouldn't be that way, but I just think that's what it would look like from their perspective. Thoughts?

[nothumb]

Here's the thing. You guys all want to talk to girls and have them not think you're hitting on them. That's because you have no game, or you expect them not to want you to hit on them, which is obviously a bad sign. You do not sneak into a girl's sports bra by pretending to be her friend and then a month later trying to slide her the hot beef injection.

The trick with hitting on women is that they're aware that they're being hit on, and still enjoy it. All you noobs need to learn this.

NT

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Don't overthink it. Just be natural. If they give you a look, try any of the other hundred girls that go to the same gym.

[BWebb]

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Here's the thing. You guys all want to talk to girls and have them not think you're hitting on them. That's because you have no game, or you expect them not to want you to hit on them, which is obviously a bad sign. You do not sneak into a girl's sports bra by pretending to be her friend and then a month later trying to slide her the hot beef injection.

The trick with hitting on women is that they're aware that they're being hit on, and still enjoy it. All you noobs need to learn this.

NT

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All good points. Some of my question arises from the fact that I just got out of a 3 1/2 year relationship and I kind of forgot how the game is played. But, it's like riding a bike, I'll remember soon enough.

[siccjay]

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The trick with hitting on women is that they're aware that they're being hit on, and still enjoy it. All you noobs need to learn this.

NT

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Agreed. They like to be hit on. Be creative though. Girls don't like AFC's (Average F**king Chumps.)

[tworooks]

see the movie "hitch". will smith does some pretty creative things

[tdarko]

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Just be natural

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this is sooooooooo true. girls don't like phonies and to me "game" is exactly what the word means and that isn't being real. be yourself, girls respond to that.

[NoTalent]

Put 300+ lbs on the bench. Walk around it for a few minutes while admiring yourself in the mirror. Ask a few guys to spot you. Let them know you will need 'a bit of help' and for sure you will need a 'lift off'.

Pace around the bench grunting loudly. Get down and grasp the bar with both hands then scream your countdown. 3! 2! 1! GOO!

As the bar is crashing down trying to crack your sternum, push with all your might and you and your spotter should be able to pull off 1 rep.

Walk around the girls on the cardio equipment and they will be all over you because you bench over 300.

[Edge34]

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Put 300+ lbs on the bench. Walk around it for a few minutes while admiring yourself in the mirror. Ask a few guys to spot you. Let them know you will need 'a bit of help' and for sure you will need a 'lift off'.

Pace around the bench grunting loudly. Get down and grasp the bar with both hands then scream your countdown. 3! 2! 1! GOO!

As the bar is crashing down trying to crack your sternum, push with all your might and you and your spotter should be able to pull off 1 rep.

Walk around the girls on the cardio equipment and they will be all over you because you bench over 300.

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Sup bro does that to warm up.

With one arm.

[ObnxNole]

Walk around with a huge boner!

[TStoneMBD]

either that or do some penis curls with the free weights. i think there is actually an electronic 9inch boner that lifts 30lb barbels.

www.8minutepenis.com (http://www.8minutepenis.com)

[peachy]

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Alright, just joined the local gym to help get myself back in shape. I'm not fat, but my cardio is weak. Anyway, like gyms all across the nation, there are a ton of hot chics walking around. Is there really any way to try to talk to these girls without it looking and feeling like you are just hitting on them? Maybe it wouldn't be that way, but I just think that's what it would look like from their perspective. Thoughts?

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if a guy just and tries to pick me up he has no chance...if hes running beside me or on an eliptical then he can start a NORMAL convo...not a hey hot stuff...whats cooking?!?! But then again im an ice queen...

guys that r confident and comfortable get my attention...but if they r using lines ill usually embarass them - if only to save girls from these guys using them again in the future. Im really picky though...so.....

[The Legend]

Wow, are you an ASF and 2+2er such as myself??? What should the code for identifying us be... Does the brown PUA swim with the HB9?

[The Legend]

Ok dude. I am going to bestow upon you the goldmine of how to pick-up women. www.fastseduction.com. (http://www.fastseduction.com.) Read the players guide, go to the forum. You follow that stuff, you'll have to beat the ladies away with a stick (Don't worry, its all free, I have no association other then the fact that its good).

The moral of the story is don't be a wuss, don't hide your sexuality, be the alpha male, don't do pick up lines... don't kiss women's @sses (by buying flowers or a drink or dinnner). The majority of communication is by body language and voice tone, so get that working. But the greatest thing you can do is indiscriminately just start talking to women and people everywhere. Just like the best way to learn poker is to play. In fact, both can be approached in the same logical way.
So to sign off...
Don't fold two pair unless you know you're up against trips.

[JcTc]

Occassionally, I have lit my pubes on fire and ran around the gym screaming. This has proven to be a good convo starter when I see the girl later, say on a treadmill. "You're the flaming pubes guy right?"

If this doesn't work, if there is some girl that has been making constant eye contact with you, just introduce yourself and be funny and don't say anything retarded. Chances are they will like it.

[siccjay]

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Wow, are you an ASF and 2+2er such as myself??? What should the code for identifying us be... Does the brown PUA swim with the HB9?

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LMAO

ill reply "Aye, but if she won't skinny-dip GFTOW"

[The Legend]

We should try to streamline the whole process. Work the cocktail waitresses and hot dealers while tearing up the 4/8s at the B&M's . We could finish ITM while fighting LMR.... value bet our TPTK while DHV...

To be honest though, my game (with the females) is crap... I've become so obsessed with poker that it all lost my interest... Spring fever is hittin me hardcore too.... time to change priorities...

[ethan]

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Wow, are you an ASF

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I was wondering if anyone else'd notice that.

[Felix_Nietsche]

Don't apologize for hitting on women....
Be UN-apologetic and just do it...

But cut your losses with those who are bitchy and give your attention to the ones that respond....

[ilya]

It's easy to be successful with girls. All you need to do is be confident, charming, and handsome.

[Felix_Nietsche]

I have heard the wise words of RJ. /images/graemlins/smile.gif

[The Legend]

do you mean your are also an ASFer, or do you not know what it means... I'm so freakin confused... oh look, something shiny...

[nolanfan34]

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The trick with hitting on women is that they're aware that they're being hit on, and still enjoy it. All you noobs need to learn this.

NT

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Boom. Thread over.





I of course have no experience with this, but that's what I imagine is the truth.

[gamblore99]

Of all the places to hit on girls, I think the gym would be the last. I can't help but feel unconfident when all the guys around me are 6 feet, 200 pounds all muscle and I am just 5'9 155

[siccjay]

if you have game it makes no difference.....well only a little

[ethan]

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do you mean your are also an ASFer, or do you not know what it means... I'm so freakin confused... oh look, something shiny...

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Neither, actually. Not a member/active participant, but I'm certainly familiar with the site.

[sublime]

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It's easy to be successful with girls. All you need to do is be confident, charming, and handsome.

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[Lawrence Ng]

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It's easy to be successful with girls. All you need to do is be confident, charming, and handsome.

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Biggest crock of [censored] [censored].

Lawrence

[zephed56]

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It's easy to be successful with girls. All you need to do is be confident, charming, and handsome.

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Biggest crock of [censored] [censored].

Lawrence

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Lawrence, 2 out of 3 ain't bad.

[yellowjack]

sup bro's advice is needed in this thread!

[tek]

You also need to read a few stories at tuckermax.com (www.tuckermax.com)

He says girls don't like wimps and you need to be a little bit rude sometimes.

But yes, confidence is good. Talking to them and really not caring if you get anywhere is good too. Do you know why?

I'll elaborate. Girls have a "Hard-Up Radar System" hardwired into their brains. The more hard up, the less chance you got...It also applies to jobs, poker games-- anything in life. The less you need something (or at least able to act like you don't need it), the more you get...

[CrazyN8]

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It's easy to be successful with girls. All you need to do is be confident, charming, and handsome.

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Biggest cock.

Lawrence

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that doesn't hurt either /images/graemlins/grin.gif

[BWebb]

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Of all the places to hit on girls, I think the gym would be the last. I can't help but feel unconfident when all the guys around me are 6 feet, 200 pounds all muscle and I am just 5'9 155

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This was the reason for the post. I'm normally pretty confident when talking to girls, but being 5'9" and weighing 165 makes it a little intimidating at the gym. But, next time I go to the gym, I'll say "[censored] it, man"