LALDAAS
01-07-2005, 02:37 PM
Need a little help from some of you in serious relationships or married.
Ok here is the back round.
My girlfriend has always been my best friend since the 6th grade and now both 26. Up until a year and half ago it was platonic. She was the girl you called when you needed advice with a relationship.
Although we had feelings for each other, we both felt our friendship was of more value as it was rather then pursue something and have it ruined.Through out both her relationships and mine we respected each others situtations and never crossed that line. Even though it was obvious we wanted to get down and dirty.
We hit a crossroad when we were both single and well with a little help form a heavy night of drinking I spanked that ass. Oh what a spanking that was.
Nearly 2 years later we are very much in love.
Needless to say that marriage button is being pressed pretty hard. Do I want to, Yes of course.
She is wonderful:
She is beautiful ( I mean hot!)
Booty ROCKS! Never says NO! About once a week comes in the bed room wearing some little hot number or at least thigh highs and heels. /images/graemlins/grin.gif ( melts me like butta)
She is very intelligent, funny with a great heart.
She's got a great job as a RN in a large hospital. Makin more dough then I. Frigin girl made $1200 beans in one shift workin OT which happens all the time.
She bends over backwards to do for me, Doing my lyndry, Washing my dishes, Cleans my apt., Makes me dinner, and will even bring me lunch or when its cold hot coco to work ( Im a driver for UPS)
Those are the pro's the con's:
I CAN'T F&#$KING BREATH MAN!!!
I need some air! For the past 6 month we have been attached at the hip. If it wasnt for our work schdules we havent been apart.
I just wanna hang out the the guys get drunk play some poker, maybe even hit the go-go after the game. I wanna be a bum on sunday laying around with the buddies scratchin my balls, belchin and bustin some ass.
I want the freedom to answer a call from the boys " Dude, Its noon get your arse out of bed, we are going to lunch, bar hop it all the way to AC, gamble then finish the night up at a Go-go if we dont pass out first."
"SIGH" My earily to mid 20's have been GRAND.
I guess this is all settling in since we are about to put a down payment on our first home. I am scared shitless. I just dont want to be that guy like in "Old School" who is all excited about a fun filled weekend of HomeDepot and Bed,Bath and Beyond and shopping for antiques. UGH!
I wanna be Frank the Tank!
What to do, What to do comments PLZ!
Ok here is the back round.
My girlfriend has always been my best friend since the 6th grade and now both 26. Up until a year and half ago it was platonic. She was the girl you called when you needed advice with a relationship.
Although we had feelings for each other, we both felt our friendship was of more value as it was rather then pursue something and have it ruined.Through out both her relationships and mine we respected each others situtations and never crossed that line. Even though it was obvious we wanted to get down and dirty.
We hit a crossroad when we were both single and well with a little help form a heavy night of drinking I spanked that ass. Oh what a spanking that was.
Nearly 2 years later we are very much in love.
Needless to say that marriage button is being pressed pretty hard. Do I want to, Yes of course.
She is wonderful:
She is beautiful ( I mean hot!)
Booty ROCKS! Never says NO! About once a week comes in the bed room wearing some little hot number or at least thigh highs and heels. /images/graemlins/grin.gif ( melts me like butta)
She is very intelligent, funny with a great heart.
She's got a great job as a RN in a large hospital. Makin more dough then I. Frigin girl made $1200 beans in one shift workin OT which happens all the time.
She bends over backwards to do for me, Doing my lyndry, Washing my dishes, Cleans my apt., Makes me dinner, and will even bring me lunch or when its cold hot coco to work ( Im a driver for UPS)
Those are the pro's the con's:
I CAN'T F&#$KING BREATH MAN!!!
I need some air! For the past 6 month we have been attached at the hip. If it wasnt for our work schdules we havent been apart.
I just wanna hang out the the guys get drunk play some poker, maybe even hit the go-go after the game. I wanna be a bum on sunday laying around with the buddies scratchin my balls, belchin and bustin some ass.
I want the freedom to answer a call from the boys " Dude, Its noon get your arse out of bed, we are going to lunch, bar hop it all the way to AC, gamble then finish the night up at a Go-go if we dont pass out first."
"SIGH" My earily to mid 20's have been GRAND.
I guess this is all settling in since we are about to put a down payment on our first home. I am scared shitless. I just dont want to be that guy like in "Old School" who is all excited about a fun filled weekend of HomeDepot and Bed,Bath and Beyond and shopping for antiques. UGH!
I wanna be Frank the Tank!
What to do, What to do comments PLZ!